Lately I've been having a big problem with girls teasing me. And sometimes it just comes out of no where. Like the other night I was out at a club with my friends and this girl is trying to get me to dance with her. I get her to buy me a drink, she let's me grab her ass, and she asks for my number at the end of the night. I figure well damn, that was easy she must be shopping.

Fast forward, she doesn't respond to my texts, she'll text me frequently but then ignore me when I reply. She's asked me out to a movie with her and her friends which I couldn't go to. It seems like she's trying to get me to chase her but I don't know why. A lot of girls lately have been doing this to me. Is it something I'm doing to provoke this or am I just chatting up the wrong kind of girl?

Did she know you couldn't go to the movie before she asked you?

And what kind of texts were you guys sending? The content is super important

Welcome to the forums Erin.

I'd say the girl is doing this because she views you as a high value smurf (read: male) and if she could get you chasing her, it would similarly elevate her status with her social circle. This is assuming people in her circle know you because you have been running game in their hangouts.

What you need to do is regain control of the frame. Freeze her out if need be, but set a day and time for when you two could be alone so that you can build comfort and escalate kino. Go mini golfing or shopping is my advice.

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I'd totally agree with roads if it was just a one time thing, but if it happens a lot then maybe it's not them I hate to say. Any girl can be eating out of your palm if you have the right look and you say the right things. So once again, I ask, how have you been responding to her? I will help you out as much as I can, if you can help me out as much as you can.

Roads: Warm welcomes to the forum will always be appreciated. : )

Whats wrong with calling?

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To me...this sounds like a girl that is trying to game but is not very good at it. I'd just sit in the cut and the next time, she asks me to hang out I'd go. Also realize that you aren't the only guy she is doing this to she prolly has multiple guys she is gaming all at once. CAN you say FEMALE PLAYER (wannabe) but you can also just tease her alot and show her that she doesn't have you, cuz that's what I think she is going for.

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Rhodes & Erin, A warm welcome to the forum.

Smurf,

It sounds like she is, indeed, playing you and I agree with Rhodes but you sound like you’re getting oneitis. Keep you’re distance from her if this is what’s happening. You do not want to stay focused on her. A lot of chicks, especially young ones, come with extra baggage and there are so many out there that you don’t need to waste your time trying to fix the broken ones. Move on to the ones that aren’t broken. I believe the expression is GFTOW and forget about her. Even if you’re not getting oneitis, putting some distance between you and her will DHV. (What? Why isn’t this guy chasing me? I’m pretty! Aren’t I? Is he better than the rest?) Just don’t totally ignore her. Let her know you’re still there but you’re not too available.

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TrojanMan88, Welcome to the forum.

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HEY BUDDY! , i have something to add, though its cool girls come and game you, you can't let her do that, why? because she is dominating and you know what happens when you let a girl dominate? stuff like this BUD!

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Exactly, you've got to dominate.

you have got to figure out a way to make this girl 1. recognize AND 2. want to fuck you

Don't give up. Never give up. Keep learning. that's what challenges are for. the question is... do you really want this biatch?

If it were me, I'd switch to war tactics. OMG you guys have GOT to pick up the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. One of my favorite tactics of his: disdain the things you cannot have.

Any how there are so many ways to come out on top here... your obviously working with a precocious little girl either way. Look down on her, laugh at her... she most likely deserves it... these guys are right. But it's really up to you and what you think about her.

Namaste

she held the frame since the beginning she asks you to dance with her she you a drink she gets your phone number. I wouldve done exactly what you did but I wouldve turned up the cocky funny. Next txt message say "want to go get a drink if so hurry up" okay I made that up pretty quickly. You have to send a day to meet her knock her don a few pegs with a neg. "When do you want to meet date and time local." just be straight forward.

"I'm too busy too be playing games" that works wonders as now they try to prove to you their not waisting your time. Puts you back in the driver's seat.

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Hey Erin, check your PM

This happened to me about three weeks ago. The girl was trying to run game, very poorly might I add. This is why it is so important not to drink at bars. Anyway, I turned her game back on her. When she met up with her friends I made myself the center of attention to DHV, at the end of the night she was eating out of my hand. I left and waited a week to call her. The freeze out totally worked. I went to her place and ran Style's massage technique and got her and her roommate in the sack. Hope everything works out for you smurf.