Hi Gentlemen,

I was wondering if anyone has an experiences meeting chicks playing beta game and switching to alpha. I've noticed that it triggers an attraction spike. There are lots of ways to do it.

For example, let's say you buy a girl a drink. Then you have her buy you a drink.

Or she compliance tests you and asks you to hold her drink, and you just do it. When she comes back she asks you to do something, and you say "all right."

Or the classic taking a girl on a first date and paying for the date. Then for the second date, she pays her half.

On the other hand, switching from alpha to beta is a major attraction killer.

I find it easier to approach girls when acting beta - you can start the conversation with a question or ask them a lot about themselves - but acting alpha is clearly better in most situations.

What do you guys think? Ever run into any beta - alpha transitions that worked well for you?

I feel its easier to start dominant then to transition to more passive than to start passive then transition to dominant. Its better to prove your stripes first. I just think showing weakness first is not the best idea. But think showing any kind of incongruence, inconsistency can be a problem.

The alpha male is really just about the drive within, how much motivation do you have to behave a certain way. The classic example is when a guy has been nice to a girl then gets disrespected for it and then behaves like an asshole.

People value what they have to work for, what they invest in, more.