I have long been a supporter of positive visualization. On it's own positive visualization is a very powerful technique that can produce lasting changes to your self image/inner game. I recently was doing one of the visualization techniques when suddenly a creative thought came to mind. I learned a piece of information that makes my visualizations even more powerful than before. What is it?
When we visualize and imagine scenarios we are really not imagining the scenario itself, but actually we are imagining ourselves acting out a certain role or belief. The scenario itself matters very little. Take for instance the belief that “I am the prize” You can think to yourself yeah I am the prize, but your mind is very unlikely to accept that as true because of all the tangent beliefs and imagined examples telling you the contrary. Your imagination is coming up with thousands of imagined examples proving your old beliefs right. How much control over a woman do you expect to have when you can't control your own mind? You are your own bitch. You have total control over yourself if you let yourself. You create your world even your imagined one, so don't just believe that you are the prize see yourself in a world where you are the prize. What do you feel like? What do you look like? How are you acting towards others? How do others act towards you? Every day see yourself in this way for 15 minutes. This will align your mind perfectly with what you are actually doing in the field. Visualization is like a mental lubricant making your mind accept being the prize much more willingly, and allows you to be much more in the moment when you are actually in the field.
Scientists have found seeing yourself doing something can be just as effective as actually doing it. Therefore it's easy do 1000 amazing interactions in your mind. You can let yourself imagine anything in any way, so mentally rehearse everything before you do it in a way that is totally successful and pushes you towards your purpose. By mentally rehearsing yourself acting in a certain mindset or belief you are wiping out all the negative tangent beliefs stopping you from actually being the belief you want. Don't just be something. Believe you are being something already. Support this with your imagination, and it will be extremely easy to go out in the field and do something you've already practiced in your mind 1000 times. After a time of doing this you will begin feeling that it's almost as if you have already interacted with the people you are talking to. What to say will come easily to you. All you have to do is create your own deja vu.
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