I've been reading a whitepaper from David X about managing expectations. He hs two rules:

1. I am the most important person in this relatinoship
2. I don't care what she thinks.

I am trying to incorporate his teachings into my game, but yesterday I bumped into the first real challenge:

I open a set with this really cute african woman. We connect real good on subjects like: religion, family and humour. We had a great hour togehter meeting each other and I kissclosed and #closed. We moved them after 10 minutes and my wing was engaging her friend for the full hour also.

Here are a couple of things that happend, and I would like to get advice on:

she wanted to talk about her ex, but when she started that she got real nervous. -->I told her this was not the time and place to discuss these things and we shouldn't talk about negative subjects.

She asked me if I was single and why-->this is an IOI and shittest at the same time. Always make sure you explain this in DHV manner, which I did. After what I told her, she already made up her mind that I was a suitable mate.

At the end I insisted at my wing on leaving, because we were meeting a friend of ours in another bar. This was however an excuse to get out of set, while energy was still high and she was still attracted. The convo was going dead.

All of the sudden she asked me if I am going to see other girls. I responded by asking her if she expected me already to monogamous after we only just met. She tried to withdraw the question, see seemed kind of embarrased about her self.

This is obviously a needy girl. But I don't understand how I can turn this around and still attract women like this without being a douchebag admitting that I am married to her after the first kiss. :-s

In the end I think it is her "christian values" that are doing this. She was even complaining about helloween is so scary and she doesn't like evil things. (I didn't mention I'm a metal fan jet haha). Has anyone got experience with this. Is this just an act that can be worked around?

Any David X followers out there or other experts in managing expectations here? I'd love to hear some experience and insight on this.

thanx. greetz

Buccaneer

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

DavidX's method is about getting rid of the waste and not recycling it, if you're in a big city then i recommand that u use his method , however if you were in a small town , then he can be a real game fucker.

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