What does "Verbalization of sex" exactly mean?



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2012 1:23 pm 
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Right so, what exactly does "verbalizing sex" mean? I've come across a lot of authors touching the topic, saying that verbalization of sex should not be done, but barely going into any details as such.

When I talk to women, I make a lot of innuendos and "double-meaning" jokes (sometimes involving the two of US). Is that also the same as verbalizing sex?

Please provide some insight, PUAs. And what exactly should be done. I can't figure out logical links here.

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Not sure but it sounds like telling guys to have more self control and manage the clock better. Inferring that guys subconsciously (motive) give away their intentions too quickly even if he mixes it in with banter. Women are highly intuitive, if they like you...you won't escalate their flight mode as quick but if they are neutral they may disappear. I'd say have more self control and only test those things between comfort and seduction phases. Maybe after a yes ladder and a funny spike. But only one and see where she takes it. If she acts like she didn't hear it, change the subject. If she hits you...say Hey stop flirting with me. Stay under the sex radar, it's all she has in her power till she shows you.... come and conquer it. Let her seduce you, get good at push/pull...cat string and let make her feel like your reality has more value, use time constraints and good body posture.

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Right so, what exactly does "verbalizing sex" mean? I've come across a lot of authors touching the topic, saying that verbalization of sex should not be done, but barely going into any details as such.

When I talk to women, I make a lot of innuendos and "double-meaning" jokes (sometimes involving the two of US). Is that also the same as verbalizing sex?

Please provide some insight, PUAs. And what exactly should be done. I can't figure out logical links here.

go to Search author skills360 then select lay and field reports, i do a lot of that, what you are doing is correct...

Edit: the best guy in the community imo that does sexual talk is a dude by the name of tva_oslo look for Tva_Oslo sex talk.

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It just means talking about sexual things. Verbalizing it. That's what being direct allows you to do. But again, as nobelsito was alluding too, you don't want to be too open about it, especially with certain women. But at a certain point you need to make it clear that you are a sexual being and you intend to be sexual with the woman. However, you don't have to be obscene or sleazy about it.

I was talking with this classy woman recently and she was saying how she hates guys that get really sexual too fast. I definitely wasn't going to ask what her favorite position is or anything like that, but I did ask what her feelings are about sex. It wasn't creepy at all, but it was a conversation about sex--a "verbalization" if you will. She was like "It is what it is" or something really vague like that. But you have to understand that people who have a lot more to offer aside from sex will not be that interested in talking about it and obsessing about it, especially as they mature. Slut whores at the club base their entire identity on it, because they are bimbos. So you can probably start talking all sexual with them right off the bat. But classy women...not so much.

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