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This is my first post. And of course its a question. Over the last few weeks i have started my journey of enlightenment. I have become a lot more chatty with the ladies and confident in my self with quite a bit of success. However i have messed up a situation a bit and am unsure how to take things forward.

Basicly last week there was a 10 on the train for my commute. The train was pretty empty and i kept making eye contact with her. With a exchange of smiles. I broke the 3 seconed rule and froze up at the situation. Been on the train there's is no escape route if things go wrong. As i left the train smiles were continuing to be exchanged so as i got off i blew her a massive kiss. Which she seemed to laugh at in a good way ( its all i could think off). So i did not see her again for a few days on the train until the other night where again pretty much the same thing happened only this time as i was about to get off i had a line ready to say ( something like same time tomorrow then?) but was taken aback when she gave me a 'have a good weekend' so my line seemed to on longer fit. I managed to replay with something equally fluffy but i am no longer sure how to resolve to situation.

How should i play it next time i see her. What approchs and pattens would work best to help me recover here. The only thing i can think of at the moment is to sit down slam opposite her and asked her how her day was. But that does not seem very memorable or interesting. Any ideas of openers and how to move this conversation alone?

As i said my PUA skills still aren't quite there yet.

well hey I'm brand-spanking new here myself, and really don't have much experience, so your best bet is to wait for somebody with a bit more confidence, but I would try something a bit different than you proposed.

The "how was your day" thing seems like a good direction, but I would try something like "we never talk anymore..." to firstly lighten the tension and secondly merely find out if she even wants to talk.

If she's interested she'll say something like "you're right, what happened to us?" or more likely "we've never really talked at all" or "I don't even know you" in which case you can follow up with your direction of "ok well.. how was your day, dear?"

once again, I'm a total newb to this kind of stuff, so its probably best to ignore me at this point lol but my fingers are restless, so.. "Submit"

The we never talk anymore... line is a great one i think. As hopfully should create abit of immediate intrest and confustion. Good idea. I like the idea of starting the conversation as if we already know each other.

Oh and the 'dear' is a nice toach as well almost a neg in it'self.

nice ideas.

Well one thing for sure is you should definitely talk to her before the opportunity is gone. Try opening with something like "Oh hello again... you must be stalking me." You can throw in a few negs and a couple more openers, but don't waste TOO much time trying to attract her, because it seems you have already done so.

Then start engaging in conversation and build her comfort with you... just avoid small talk and AFC-type questions (e.g. where do you live, where do you work, etc). What's always fun is Mystery's (or Style's, I forget) questionaire of "Who lies more, guys or girls?" Whatever you decide to use, BE INTERESTING THE WHOLE TIME!!

Oh yeah, and don't forget to use some kino along the way. Set a date to go out with her before you leave or at the very least her number. Anyway, good luck to you and do tell how it goes.