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I swear I have done absolutely nothing to earn that from them
AAhhh, that's the whole point. Their b/f's no doubt have TRIED to "earn" the girl's attention. Where as YOU could care less, because YOU don't want or need them. Thus, you have flipped that attraction switch within the girls. And, the more of a jerk you are to them, the more they will be attracted. Also, the more attention you give to them will be considered IOI's by them. Either way, you're pretty well screwed with that. So, all you can do is be blunt and tell them where you stand. Either the girls accept it or not. And either the guys accept it or not. You can't change yourself back to the way you were. That won't help you later in life. If these friends can't accept this, you have a big decision to make.