Ok, this post may get alot of heat because I know alot of PUAs just want to get with as many girls as possible, but I really am looking for a LTR if the opportunity arises.

I met this girl at college in the beginning of September. We were from the same town and I became good friends with her. I could always sense attraction between us, but besides a random hookup the first night of school, I never k-closed her. We'd frequently meet up and get dinner together, though.

Things changed a week before Thanksgiving, where I asked her to hang out one night. We ended up sleeping together. I k-closed and fingered her. Would have f-closed but i couldn't get hard (wtf). During Thanksgiving break, she came over to my house twice for a party. The second time she drove her friend home and came back to help "clean up". This is a 15 minute drive each way. We ended up making out and she went home.

The next weekend at school, I invited her to hang out, and i finally ended up f-closing her that night.


Christmas break finally rolled around (2 weeks after the f-close) and I have since seen her 3 times. The first night I watched a movie at her place, did not close. The second time she came here and we ended up making out heavily and having sex twice. The 3rd time she helped me go Christmas shopping for my mom and ordered pizza. We ended up in my room where we made out for a while and I got a bj.

What I've noticed with each progressing time we hang out, is that she seems to get closer and closer to me. The last time we were together she was pretty much clinging to me the whole night, and moving into me/pulling me into her to kiss. She's also more comfortable with lying down and just staring into my eyes. We get along extremely well and have alot of great convos and are always laughing, etc. I really like her and I think she really likes me.

I'd like to start a serious relationship with her, but I'm not sure how. Does it just happen? Asking "will you be my gf?" sounds retarded. On the other hand, I feel like I need to do something or else I might get friended. I do feel as if I could get rejected, as she's not the type of girl that I could see looking for a relationship. She has a similar attitude towards one of a PUA. I'm afraid her rejecting me could make our existing relationship awkward.

Just let it happen dude. Don't mention feelings or shit like that. She'll most likely be turned off by it. Let her bring that shit up.

and when she does go like i thought we were dating...

You don't ask a girl to be your girl friend like some little kid she usually will say I love you or imply it directly to you. Once you agree to this then you have a g/f and understand you're exclusive. Just be direct with her and tell her whats up. I never ask a girl to be my girl friend I usually get the,"I love you thing." Once you get that then you kinda figuare your in a relationship.

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