Now I'd like to elaborate on the process I went through, from the time I first listened to the "Home Study" course, to the time I finally got consistent results. I think it's important so some of you can see what I went through to reach the level of success that I have, and see that persistence pays off! As I stated a moment ago. it took me about 5 months to see consistent . results, and the road leading to that was very painful, as well as exhilarating. I must have gotten rejected, laughed at, slapped, yelled at, and spit on, more times than I care to count. I definitely thought of quitting MANY times, I even went so far as to write up a fiery letter to Ross detailing what a fraud I thought he was. Thank god I never mailed that letter, because I would have never known how successful I would have been. I had been using "anchors" for years, so I had that part down just fine. I had found a perfect tonality to use, so that wasn't an obstacle anymore. I really started to believe that I wasn't worthy of beautiful women in my bed, and I began to get depressed. I thought I was doing everything the tapes said to do, but I was not seeing the results I expected. The truth is, I was coming at the whole thing from a state of -"hunger" so while I did the walk-up and patterns the way it was stated to do, women could sense my internal panic, and were turned off by it!

My moment of clarity came about three months into practicing Speed Seduction, while I was looking up celebrity porn on the internet. For years I have known that if you want a more intelligent answer, you have to ask a more intelligent question. So I didn't ask myself, "Why isn't this working?" because I would have likely gotten the reply, "Because you suck!" Instead I asked myself,"What can I do to be successful at this, that I haven't already tried?" The answer came to me in two simple words: Be Different. So I sat there and wrote out dozens of questions related to being unique, like, "What do most guys fail to notice that a woman would like to be recognized for?" As I wrote these questions down, I listened to the "Unstoppable Confidence" tapes, and created my 40 foot self once again. (I can not mention enough how absolutely powerful the "Unstoppable Confidence" tapes are. So if you don't already have a set, BUY THEM TODAY!!!)

I had my 40 self step into various scenarios and handle things in ways most guys don't think of. Like complimenting a woman on her wedding ring, asking their opinion on stuff, refusing to accept a woman's bad attitude, and on and on! Within two hours I had begun a whole new foundation for my sarging. And that night, at work, I made a point of asking some female co-workers how they first knew that the man they were with/married to was the person they wanted to be with. I made note of their answers, and found ways to use them in patterns. And my "friend with benefits" Rene was a big romance novel reader, so I peeked at some of her novels to see what kind of guys were in these things, and made notes. All in all, it took about two weeks of note taking, pattern writing, and testing on babes, before I finally started getting women to sit and talk with me for more than ten seconds. And keep in mind this was almost a year BEFORE I knew how to analyze handwriting using the "Grapho Deck" (Another great item, if for nothing more than an excellent ice breaker!) As time went on, and I worked harder on my skills, women began sitting with me longer, and I developed the thought process of "No matter what, you own this place, so have fun!"

Soon, I had my first success, and guess what? I thought the babe was playing games with me!!!! I thought, "Okay, she'll get me into bed, then laugh at me as she scoops up my clothes and runs away!" But before I royally fucked this up, I asked myself the question, "But what if this is all real?" Suffice it to say, she was being truthful and we made hot monkey love! A month later I banged a babe I had been eyeing for months, and the "hits" have been "cumming" ever since! I know beyond any doubt that if I had not gone through such massive failure at first, I would not be as successful at Speed Seduction as I am today! There's something so damn exhilarating about overcoming a giant obstacle, that you develop such a momentum you surpass your own expectations after awhile!

I want to make clear that even though I have had great success with women using Speed Seduction, I in no way get ANY woman I want. There are still some women who agree to meet me someplace, but then they don't show up. There are –some women who swear they will call, but they don't. And there are even some women who tell me no. (*GASP*) But this isn't about banging every babe we get a woody for, nor is it about controlling women. It's about going out there, having some fun, and maybe sharing an adventure with a babe or three who have something to offer beyond their implants!

So the best advice I can give the Brothers who are struggling with this stuff is this:

1) PRACTICE! Make the time to practice this stuff EVERY DAY, or at least every other day!

2) No matter what, HAVE FUN! If you're not having fun, have fun instead! (how's that for a mind-twist?)

3) PRACTICE! There is no better way to make this stuff a habit than to practice
ft all the time!

4) Keep a journal! Write down what you notice works, and add in what no longer works. Trust me, we get so busy living life, we tend to forget what we've learned if we don't write it down!

5) PRACTICE! If you don't have the time to do it right, when will you have the time to do it over?

6) Communicate with other Brothers! There is a vast wealth of knowledge and support by using the e-mail list, and talking with brothers on the phone! Use
it, and get laid as a result!

7) PRACTICE! I know I saved this one for last, but believe me, practice is important!

I get asked quite often, "Bish, how many women have you banged so far?" And the truth is, I don't know! I don't know because I don't keep score! This never has been, nor ever will be, about banging the most babes I can get, so I don't keep track. For me. Speed Seduction is about taking what I can already do right, and adding what women respond to on a much deeper level. Those two things combined
mean that not only do I get to have a kick ass time with the kind of women I want, but she's having the time of her life too! It's about mutual satisfaction, not selfish motives... okay, so maybe a few selfish motives, but that's ALL!

Good tips man, only one question how long have you been into NLP? do you use it in every spot?