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| tret | PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 6:54 am | |
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AOL: tretgreat | | I have a question, if you attract even those whom you are not even remotly interested in should you still persue/leed them on to increase ones value in the eyes of others?
or would it only decrease it, making you seem desperate.
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| Rye Lee | PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 7:22 am | |
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Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada | | I wouldn't lead them on and make them think something would happen that wouldn't, but making them attracted will still increase your social proof, so if they become attracted, then you don't have to get it to stop.
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| L.A. Tripp | PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 9:45 am | |
| | | tret, having women attracted to you ALWAYS increases your social value. Even if she's not hot, she will increase your value enough for someone slightly hotter to look at you with SOME interest. Then, it's like a ladder. You keep increasing on the "hotness" scale with each girl. You are showing that you are preselected, which is one of the core attraction switches. Just because a girl is attracted to you doesn't mean you're taking her home with you.
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| They Call Me Lucid | PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 11:54 am | |
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Location: Arkansas | | pawn the girls too. flirt with them a bit but dont advance with them sexually. push pull with them so they will be dropping off of you. you know those girls who have guys drooling over them? ya... be that but in guy form. you need to look like you have women all over you but you are very selective. make the girls you do choose feel special.
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| L.A. Tripp | PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 10:28 pm | |
| | | LMAO. Lucid, for some reason it just occured to me that that's a tactic I frequently seem to use. As I'm building social proof, I have the girl's throwing me IOI's and stuff, and for those that don't know what's going on, what I'm doing, lol, it looks like I have girls drooling all over me, like the hot girls have guys doing with them.
LOL, I guess I've just seen it from my own perspective and never stopped to think of it from that perspective.
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| The Wild One | PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 12:02 am | |
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Location: Charlotte | | Well girls use guys all the time for their own personal games. We can do this also so if you want a girl in a set then use a pawn. I mean why not unless you've lied to her and said you love her then your cool.
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