Hey everyone.

There's a girl in my school who I have one-itis over. Well, I don't really have one-itis over her, but I am frustrated that i can't get her(she's a seven).

You see, I'm starting to think it's easier for me to get 8's and 9's than 7's. Because my whole game plan, is designed for 10's. The lower the chicks value, the less my material works on them.

So I was lying in bed tonight, thinking about her(maybe I do have one-itis), and imagined mystery walking up to her, talking to her, then taking her hand and leaving with her.

So I was wondering "Why the fuck can he just take her like that!?"
What does he do that I don't!?

So I look at him and I look at myself, and I realize what's the difference.

He's VERY relaxed. He acts like he and she has a very emotional connection, like they communicate telepathically. I don't.

I act all cool when I'm with her, telling stories, talking to her for hours etc.
But I have not ONCE tried to "not talk". I have never tried to establish a pure emotional, connection with her. It's never felt to her like I understand her.

It might be too late to get her to go out with me, but I'm gonna try anyway. What's the worst that could happen?

From tomorrow on, I'm just gonna sit with her, do some kino escalation, then RELAX and say nothing.

If this works, I'll be sure to tell you guys. And if it doesn't, I'll tell you guys anyway.

your totally right we need to get an emotional connection with the girl.
Thats whats wrong with my game, I can attract, banter, neg like I was Jesus(because I am) but when it comes to connection I got to work on that. Thanks man.
Now about your being able to attract 10 and 9s better your totally right.
I can attract a 10 like it was nothing but I couldn't get a 5 if I tried.

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Well, I didn't get a chance to talk to her today(we are writing exams), but I did pull out the calm and happy mystery look, and it works.

I came in, sat at my desk, pulled out my book and looked like someone who just has it all together. While I'm paging through my book, a solid 7 just walks up to me and asks me: "Did you watch smallville last night?

Now, from watching mystery's seminars, I know that this is an IOI. She doesn't care weather I watched smallville, she just wants to talk. So I did talk to her for a while, then told her there are a few things I still have to check in my book.

During recess, I approached random groups and asked them how their studying is going. Being relaxed like Mystery makes a HUGE difference. In fact, if you look that relaxed, everyone accepts you right away.

To make things even better, I didn't feel an ounce of AA when I walked around so calm and happy. Approaching groups feels natural like this. You guys should really go out and try this, relaxed and happy.

oooh never actually heard this before...i've actually kinda had the same problem, there's this cute 7.5 in my skool that i guess i kinda have one itis over and exact same situation...we'll go together and we'll sit and like i guess i'm not relaxed enuff around her...k so here's the deal i want to try this out for myself tommorow at lunch or afterskool or whenever i get the time. Let you knw if it worked for me to...

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So basically, have good internal game. Mystery knows who he is and people (not just girls) instantly pick up on that. His confidence comes through in his game.

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Did you end up getting this chick or not?

I disagree I find it is easier to get a 7 or 8 rather than a 10. Mind you I am still a newb and have a ton of training and practice to do? I find that 10's are definately achievable but take more time to connect to on a emotional level. Wheras a 7/8 I find don't always get the guy they want and/or are not the center of their social group.

Just my outlook on it - but I'm always looking for more info from the real PUA's.

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the thing is opening and talking to a ten is harderish, only because they're more intimidating, but once you treat them like you treat 7s and 8s and you start following pickup by the book on them and you'll do fine.

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Okay so you treat the 9 or 10 like they're 7's and 8's to get them...but wut would you treat the 7's and 8's like? Just curious so glad to hear any feedback from you guys...

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GETTING HB 10 ARE EASIER ..BECAUSE I HAVE REALIZED IN THE FIELD THAT THE MORE BEATIFULL A GIRL IS...THE MORE INSECURE SHE IS!!!
HB 10 LIVE IN 2 MODE ...OVER CONFIDENT OR INSECURE..YOU JUST HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO TAPE INTO THAT PERTICULAR MODE .
PEACE

ANGEL

I think, I agree with angel in that one , they aren't more easy but yeah they are over secure or insecure thats right.

But they aren't more easy than a 8.5 or a 9

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lower the ladder, higher the brain power. Chicks that are smart, like to be intruiged and amused. Negging don't work for smarter chicks, unless you do a bad job in amusing them with intruiging tales and a bit of sexual undertone...work them up to a neg, but dun neg rite away.. emotional connection totally relevant and important.