Hey what's up guys? i just had a talk with this girl for about 30 min or so. And for some reason i concentrated on qualification or so i thought.

Everytime she'd be like "why r u doing that"..."do this" ...etc. I'd respond in a "haha...really...don't tell me what to do b/c it won't ever work"..or something along those lines. Later on after another "command" statement..i said "you must really like to be in control and command others". She responds with basically a "yes"..i then ask "are you used to it working because as u can see it's not working with me" She then responded that people obey her and then i'd state "why is it that you like to be around weak/er people?"

This isn't POSITIVE obviously...but in my opinion it would be interesting if someone got down to questions like that. Besides me being honest and curious with her....for PUA is this something i just shouldn't do? She didn't really respond in a positive way because i was being completely right about her, but having been able to read her well only after a not to long conversation i'd think would catch her interest. But then again...no IOIs or really "you know what, good question, let me think about it".

Any ideas?

As for her being commanding i think you are handleing it right...sometimes i have found what works best when they try and command you is just make EC, wait a split second then give a hearty long "Tom Cruise" laugh, and go back to not doing what they asked.

Also i like the C&F response that i have found myself giving the boss's daughter at work...

HER: "Do x,y,z.."

ME: "Say the magic word!" (say this as if you really mean it, and do not do what they ask if you get anything other then a "please")

HER: "Please." (compliance)

ME: "Wrong answer, i was looking for "Do it NOW!"." (dont wait for a response, go and do it..this is however at work, if the target has no authority over you simply respond and dont do it)

Ocasionally when a target asks something of you point out why its dumb/pointless/wasteful for her to have you do it instead of you...

(this actually happened to me)

Target walks out of office, past the fridge and comes over to me...

Target: "Can you put some chicken nuggets in the microwave me and (boss's daughter) are hungry?"

ME: "You do realize you passed both the fridge and the microwave to come over here and listen to me say 'no', right?" (did this without even looking away from my computer)

Worked like a charm, she was throwing IOI's at me the rest of the day like she was a major league pitcher.

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"You do realize you passed both the fridge and the microwave to come over here and listen to me say 'no', right?"

LoL ...funny response man i'm going to use that first chance i get. But you didn't really answer my thread haha. I know how to handle a girl that is trying to make me her bitch. I'm curious about if those types of questions..the way i said it are going the wrong way with PUA because i wasn't giving them a positive energy, but thought it was more interesting to ask deeper questions then fluff talk and neg. She didn't respond in IOIs and im not sure why.

Any thoughts?

I don't see anything wrong with "what" you said, just maybe how you said it. I don't know how you said it, but that statement of "why do you like to hang around with weaker people" should have been said in a cocky way for the best effect.

Most of this stuff is in delivery and body language.

I guess i found it somewhat hard to follow the post. If what your asking is if the questions SHE is asking you are good...my response is maybe.

If she is being playful when asking them, then yes...

If she seems genuinly annoyed then no...


However your reaction should pretty much be the same unless you really pissed her off, and that is to be C&F and keep doing what your doing as if its nothing.

Even if shes mildly annoyed, when you do not do what she asks and are C&F with her it may make her mood a bit more playful and you might be able to turn her mood (and opinion of you) around.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."