Hey guys,

Hope everyones good. Well heres the situation. The parents are out of town this weekend, and I have the house to myself. Now, I was supposed to have this girl over, but shes not feeling well today she has a fever, she had one friday at school as well and shes still not better.

But anyhow I want to invite over my ex girlfriend, but we haven't talked in 2 1/2 months, shes been ignoring my calls and texts. Now you guys may say ok, well then give up? Well heres the case I know she cares about me its just that shes really stubborn. How should I go about inviting her over, because I know if she does come over I can easily f-close her and this is the perfect time since no1's home. I know you guys are going to say onitis, lol but has anyone been in a similiar situation or can anyone suggest something for me to text message her.

tks guys apperciate it!


I was thinking of text messaing her this:

Hey, my parents and my girlfriend are out of town. Come by tonight, im having some people over.

Is that good or should I say come by tonight. I put the girlfriend bit in for pre-selection/non-needyness/to get her jelous lol.

anyone? I really dont have much time.

I text messaged her saying,

"Hey my parents are in new york, and my girlfriends at a wedding, come by tonight im having a party."

Honestly, there's probably no chance, since she is already ingorning your attempts to contact her. If she IS still attracted to you, that may be why she's purposely ignoring you. Otherwise, you may be misreading her and there's NO attraction left there. Either way, you've been needy up to this point by continuing to contact her. I'd be surprised if tonight goes according to your wishes.

Plus saying "My girlfriend's out of town", well, doesn't exactly DHV.

oh man L.A. Tripp right once again lol. It didnt go as planned at all in fact she didnt text message me back. LoL thats it screw that oneitis well really i just wanted to hook up not get back with her. Well im going out four nights a week for 2 hours each night sarging, so its all good =D.

Thanks L.A. for all your words of wisdom there appreciated. And you were right once again :p.