hey yall i kissed ass on a girl a lot and she got used to it. but she loves me too.
then i told her this weekend i loved her sooo much and stuff. (i know afc, but please read on)
and then she didnt hear from me again.
so after a while (2 days) she was like emailing me
hey im thinking about u. love you

and i didnt reply or whatever. she expected me to instantly reply her. (which i had always done)
the next day she was like sending me another mail, asking if i had received the other one.. and that she loves me, and misses me.

still didnt reply to it.. (back in my mind i figured i would textmessage her tomorrow)
the next day she tried to see me. but i wasnt there. she mailed me her story what she had done that day and stuff. and that she misses me.
i textmessaged her
i love you a lot, ur name should be lovely hahah

and she was like almost instantly i love you too blabla
but then i was like yeh i was too busy in school, i love you so much (basically i started ass kissing again and that i was thinking about her all the time.)
now i dont hear as much anymore, its back to basics really..
she still likes me a lot, but she is satisfied now. i mean. she said she couldnt sleep because she was thinking about it at night, which was exactly what i had been through a few weeks earlier. because i mailed her a lot, like 8 times a week and she replied only 2 or 3.
i couldnt sleep about it aswell, thought that she might fancy another dude.
we cant see each other that much due to distance.

my question is what do you guys think of this, is she cheating me ? how can i make her feel more attraction towards me ?

let me know please thx in advance

Well, you started on the wrong foot, then got on the right foot, amazingly, and somehow the girl took to it and responded accordingly. Then, you've switched back over. From what you say there's not much way to tell for sure if she's seeing someone else or not. But, if you're at a distance and can't see each other much, how are you expecting to progress things?

Once you consistently display a certain pattern of behavior, they will think this is normal... even if the behavior is annoying or uncommon

When you deviate from your usual behavior, it causes others to think that something is up...
You must avoid this...
from now on... establish some common behaviors that are consistent, but become more sporadic in your correspondence, so she doesn't think she has a hold on you

you might just be... COOCHIE-WHIPPED since you gave away your usual pattern, she'll get pissed & say you've changed or something, like you dont' love her if you don't do the usual stuff.

You're f***ed

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