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Seduction isn't about bullying your way through either, or bullying people around when you don't get your way, but we're also not starting more wars either.
Uhhhhhh...What?
Do I really need to break that down for you? Seduction . . . isn't . . . about . . . being . . . a . . . bully. Got it?
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Hell, I wish the old premadonnas could understand this, lol
Obviously, if your still making statements like this, you have NO IDEA what we are all about. Find me a post where the
"premadonnas" were worried about not being able to use canned lines or didn't "understand" as you say.
Hmmm, can't get your own words to match up, eh? I've never said anything about not being able to use canned lines. YOU called the canned lines crap. YOU say people should drop the canned lines. I simply disagree because canned lines can be used and do serve a purpose. I've never said everyone should always use canned lines, as you infer I say. i simply disagree and I guess you can't stand that.
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I totally agree, it's like the whole social robots thing...
As I've always said the canned lines are ok when you have no idea what to say... but there comes a point when you should be using your own material... Thats when the growth truly starts escalating
Exactly Doc, no-one is saying people can't use canned lines. There is nothing wrong with needing a little guidance in the beginning, but this should not be anything more than a crutch. As soon as you can walk again, do you still use the crutch? Obviously not. Besides, no-one is completely original when you really think about it, everyone uses canned phrases, statements, jokes, and other conversational snipets. But yes, the true growth really starts when you don't go out thinking about "the cube" and other routines, you just go out and be yourself, applying what you have learned and fusing the knowledge into your persona.
LMAO, then why do you attack my posts when I talk about the benefits of using canned lines? Apparently this is actually a personal problem you have with me? Hmmm, I guess that means you're threatened by me? No surprise there.
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As if you can't make a strong, intimate, real connection using canned lines.
IMO, a genuine connection cannot be generated when you are running routines. Does it feel genuine to her? Probably. But is it
really genuine by definition? No.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm . . . but you just above said the use of canned lines is fine for beginners . . . and that everyone uses canned phrases, statements, and jokes . . .
So, I guess in your way of thinking, you never truly make a connection with her . . .