Ive been reading through a lot of posts and i dont think that this issue has been addressed properly. When i game girls there are two completely different mindsets that i use to my advantage there is the very macho sweetsin and there is the "camp" sweetsin. I think that both types of mindsets can be used to great effect

Advantages and disadvantages:
Macho-the advantages of the macho mindset is that it is a very physically dominating narrow minded ALPHA view where you are the boss. When using this mindset i think you can quickly get attraction but the follow through to kino escalation can be hard because of girls thinking "wow he comes on strong, are we moving to fast"

"Camp"-I was inspired when i read the game and realized that most of Styles game is based on him being able to get under HB's radar. i then went out to try the approaches he did such as
"i'm gay but if i wasn't i'd have you tight now"
Guys this is a great mindset to be in because girls seem to open up to you quicker and it is very easy to get Kino going because the girls belive you are a very touchy feely person and that you are like this around everyone .the disadvantage to gaming like this is that it is harder for you to get intimate with a girl. Even if you do not want to be this "gay" with a girl you can still get in touch with your girlie side. E.G i have a hair style which i straighten my hair, this is a great this to talk to girls about because they will always be willing to give you tips on how to do it better or which straighterners are best.



i just wanted to ask about how all of you guys feel about this matter

P.S getting used to doing this is great because when you are with a girl you can peacock according to what type of mind you are in. for example when i go for the "camp" option i will go for a peacock style heavily reliant on flashy Accessories like bracelets and necklaces but if i'm going for the macho style i would be more likely to just have one peacock accessories like a belt buckle!!!

I mix the two. I'm alpha as fuck and will AMOG anyone else around without thinking about it, but I don't act like I'm pursuing the girls, I'm just interested having a good time, being nice, but treating them like any other person in the group and busting their balls whenever I can. Its hard for them to get a read on you and they're not sure exactly why you aren't pushing to get into their pants, so they kinda temp you in order to see if you are interested in even getting girls. Then you keep playing with them and push them away making them try harder, because you make yourself still look uninterested. At this point, they are trying hard enough, that if you reach out and pull them slightly, they fall right into your arms.

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