Was I always natural? Did I always find it easy to pick up women?

No.

But I studied manipulation, and no I wouldn't say its a negative thing, we're all manipulators, everyone has desires, hidden even from themselves. I studied the way to make people do what I want and I found that I am an attention seeker, and I was surprised because I had always prided myself on not caring what other people think, and even in my attention seeking, I inhabited my only reality, I lived in my own little bubble of colourful clothing and witty remark and if a girl wanted to come along for the ride that was fine with me and if she didn't I wouldn't mind much

But then..

I learnt every so often some spectacular girl would show up, and I would find her matching me, and because I'm analytical, because I try to detach myself from what I feel and study the cause of them because I already considered myself a player at the art of socialability I could see them doing to me what I usually did to women, I could see the subtlety of their behaviour, I could see the way they did to me what I was trying to do them I could see it and every time I fell in love, even though I KNEW without a doubt that they were playing me, they were making me fall into the trap.

So what did I do?

I jumped into the trap, a glint in my eyes. What did she have to teach me.

With every lover I took who knew how to play, I learnt more, it became more difficult to fall in love, my standard grew higher.

I will only ever love a playette.


They make you learn more about the self, they teach the tricks if you're willing to listen they even, sometimes, or whenever you ask, study the game with you.

My teachers were women.



There's a favourite song of mine where the guy says, working hard on your job will make you a living, and that's fine but working hard on yourself will make you a fortune and that is super fine and I would second, third and fourth that. Be beautiful in appearance and you will attract beauty. Be beautiful in mind and you will attract whatever you like.

When I discovered Mystery I was amazed. He was teaching what I had learnt in the field and from books and from womens lips, he had refined what I had learnt to a high degree, he had added science to the art and while it is still an art the science is true, the principles are correct, they're based in the mind of the woman, and he definitely knows what he's talking about.

The choice we all have,

1. learn from the wild, and this involves a lot of suffering.

2. Learn from the pro's, and this involves effort too but the suffering is reduced, the time frame is smaller, the victories more frequent and sweet.

I would say a mixture of art and science would reign supreme in whatever field you work.

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