Ok, so last night me and my buddies decided to go out to the city to walk around have some fun, maybe get into a bar or club and kick it.

After a while of riding around we eventually ended up at my usual digs, Holy Cow. My buddy bounces there so it was an easy in.

Now, we weren't out gaming that night so I really wasn't looking for anything, but I am well aware of my own confidence and approach anxiety so I am always trying to break down that wall, So the first thing I did when I entered the bar was I located a 3 set of girl (probably about a bunch of 7s) and I started chatting them up, asked them what they were drinking, and made fun of them cause they said they were strong, they all laughed and IOId and one gave me her drink to try, I sipped it and rubbed her arm and frowned at her insinuating that she was a wimp. after than I went into a quick conversation about what get my kid sister (I really am wondering what I should get her, lol). After that conversation was over I told them I had to get back to my friends, and exited. that felt good.

So me and my buddies grabbed some drinks and headed to the dance floor. Like I said, we were really looking to have a good time. Instantly when we got on the dance floor they play some good tracks so we were able to get down, after about a couple of minutes of dancing I look up...proximity IOIs all around us, I mean, there was a girl somewhere near us dancing and having fun.

After a little dancing we broke of to sit down and recoup and that's when I got a chance to look around the bar, Then I saw them all, at least 4 of them...skulking through the venue...talking to every girl that came within a few feet of them...3 of them were chumps, only remixes of the shit they saw on VH1...ONE GUY EVEN DRESSSED LIKE MYSTERY, TO A T!

None of them had game, except one. Chubby guy in a cowboy hat, printed tee, jeans, cowboy boots, and on his shoulder, the finest black chick I seen in years. And a couple hours later? he was dancing with two fine ass white ladies...

This guy had game...he was the only one besides me and my boys who were getting some real play.

Then it dawned on me, The FRAME is everything, if you can walk into a bar, have fun and really genuinely have a good time, and not give a fuck about the girls, they WILL come to you. If you can be the life of the party, THEY will want to meet you and talk to you.

I didn't get any numbers, and I didn't get any kisses, but it wasn't the object of last night I had a really good time. But just by having fun and not giving a damn, I was able to talk to and dance with a lot of women that night. I open a 3 set, danced, and kept my frame...guys, we were alpha that night, and everyone knew it.

-The Chef

PS. Mystery says in his book that the dance floor is a trap, but I strongly recommend using it to DHV if you have nothing else to do at the time. At it's damn fun.