The dancefloor game
Hey, this is how my dancefloorgame goes:
- I'll open with whatever comes in mind ( e.g. "Hey, where you guys from?", "Hey, I want to dance with you" -> followed by grabbing her arm and leading her a bit further)
- if there are friends I'll say hi to everyone and shake hands, all in good vibe, might make some comments on what i notice about them, just keeping it fun.
- I'll say to the girl I want to dance with her (if I didn't open with that), or I'll take her hand, look her in the eyes and might say let's dance or just start dancing.
- Now I have freedom to move her around, I pull her so that she's with her back to her friends, just a few meters away from them. Remember: You always lead!
- now some basics moves to start off are taking both her hands and swing them back and forward (when right arm goes forward, left arm goes back) while stepping back and forward. Strong eye-contact while dancing is awesome and creates tension. I'll push her away and pull her back while I still hold her hands, this pulling back is one of the moves you can use to pull her real close. You can go with your hands up to pull her close so that you both have hands in the air and faces close, hold it there for a while => tension! or you can go with your hands down along the side of your body.
- From the position with hands up pulled close, you can lead her arms around your neck, put them there and put your hands on her back. now you're dancing real close, swinging a bit with your hips and making small steps back and forward is all that's required. If you want to do some fun stuff, you can put one hand behind your neck and stretch the other in front of you to some sort of wals pose, turn your body to the stretched out arm and start stepping. This will get her laughing. Like this guy, but less serious lol
If you moved your hands down you can have fun by really pulling your hands back to the sides, so that she has not choice but to almost bump into you. You could also take both her hands and smack them both on your ass cheecks and tell her for fun how naughty she is.
If you want to keep the tension you can let her hands go when she's close and put your hands on her hips or her lower back.
- some other fun stuff you could do is take her belt and start swinging her hips weirdly and say she dances silly (got this from stealth attraction), I also like to let her go and just stand still, look at her with a funny one eyebrow raised "what are you doing" look. keep the frame, she'll come back towards you, start touching you and say "Whaaat? come on!", because she can't handle the tension. I also think it's fun to spin a girl multiple times after eachother and pull her back close again.
- A cool thing to do is teach the girl something about dancing, when you're teaching her something it is ok to touch her early on places she would resist if it was too early. You can find an example of this in
my old journal:
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I pull her closer to me and start grinding, she was following real good. I start grinding her and says she'll need to let me lead, thats her job. We grind and I ask her if she knows the basic salsa steps. she doesn't so I tell her I'll teach her. I push the front of her thigh to the back and lead her like this into the salsa step . She didn't seem to mind I was touching her thighs on the back and front. I grind some more, go back into normal dancing, grind again and start walking away with her while grinding. She asks me where I'm going and I tell her "just over there ..." which was no response since I didn't point at anything.
- It's time to grind. you can switch grinding with the above stuff if you want to. Usually I do front to front grinding, which basically full contact rubbing against eachother while swinging the hips. She should have one of her legs between yours. You can go low while grinding and back up. If you want to spin her 180 degrees so that she's grinding with her ass against you, or spin yourself 180 degrees and grind your ass against her as a joke.
- Isolate her further. You can step while grinding and lead her to a wall or somewhat further away if her friends are still there, if you're lucky the friends will have disappeared. By being friendly and saying a few things to the friends, it's less likely that they'll drag her away and more likely that they trust you with eachother so they don't have to "keep an eye". Once you've reached a wall or whatever you like, you can push her against it and still grind her. At this point the tension is so high and she's into you enough that you can go for make out or start kissing her neck. From here you can put your hand on the side of her chest, you can slide your hand against the side of her boob and see if she resists or not. You may want to slide your down along her leg and start rubbing her leg and go to her ass. If she doesn't allow it, smile and back off a bit. If she does, you can slide your hands between her legs. Do what feels natural to do.
- making out can get boring very fast, if you plan to get her home I suggest you don't get her as hot as above when it's still early and she's unlikely to leave. You can switch making out with her with having fun / going back to friends/ changing venues.
CHAT
