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To fudge, how are your levels different from just being really good at indirect game? I mean it just seems like 1 to 4 are just proficiency levels. Don't get me wrong, I've tried Mm in the past and was able to get girls that looking back couldn't have gotten if I had been natural. And I know guys who are good at MM who turn no girls into yes ones. So I believe that indirect style can help you pass your looks level and status level. I just don't like it anymore because it's more an ego thing than dating a girl who actually likes you for you. But if you want to do that that's fine.
That's a great question Neo. I was actually thinking about this myself a while back while deciding if game even existed. The reason I was questioning PU was because an AFC could walk into a room full of 100 women, and using weak body language + boring abc conversation (Where you from? Oh that's cool! I've never been there. Did you go to school there? Oh nice. I went to school at xyz place...blah blah blah): He will be able to convince one of them to allow him to take her on 5 dinners before she decides to sleep with him, form a relationship, get married, and have kids. You know the stuff average guys do.
What started this questioning was after I started seeing tons PU advice saying "Go approach 100 women! Some of them will respond to the bullshit your spewing!", "Approach MORE", "Just do some approaches!" "If you just approach 100 you will get good". So all that AFC has to do is approach 100 women using his own knowledge and he's a PUA?
It looked like there was no difference. After thinking about it for a while. The difference became apparent to me. It has to do with the effectiveness of the numbers game a person employs.
The first guy has no choice over which women respond to him, and it's a crap shoot if he will even get 1. Honestly it could be 0-100. The basic level 1 PUA has a system (if he learned from the correct sources) that is proven to work on a certain type of girl. Even though he is using a proven system, his skills still suck and he makes many mistakes.
He gets better, figures out how his system works and in which environments. This allows him to reach level 2 status. Then he hits a wall that I'm about to explain in a moment. Don't worry I'll address your question soon.
I don't know MM, never read the book. I wasn't drawn to it because I'm not an actor. I don't like feeling fake. Running scripts in a social environment is very fake to me, so I just never picked the book up. That being said, if I'm wrong about these theories on the method's effectiveness please point it out. I am always down to learn.
MM relies on a strictly indirect game. I believe it's mostly employed in a club environment as well. So you have the restrictions of indirect, and night game club environments.
Reaching level 2.5, studying female psychology, and field testing hardcore, I've determined that some women require a direct approach up front. If you go indirect on them they don't understand that you've selected them out of a crowd or that you think they are special.
This is contrary to most of the PU advice that says: Be aloof, a mystery, project that you have abundance and options, make her chase you, etc. You know the stuff which is tailored to party chicks and club girls. Girls who feed off of male attention, gangbang chicks, and what not. It's the way her psychology and conditioning is. The indirect girl. The ones I don't respect. The ones who cheat. The ones who have created these sexodus men. The ones that put the fear of GOD into Joe.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXRN_LkCa_o
Granted on direct girls you can do the indirect thing, then switch over to direct on her and it will work, but from the limited stuff I've heard about MM it's an entirely Indirect thing that is focused on getting a girl to chase you. Something that goes against this woman's conditioning.
Half of the women have to be chased, and half of the women you can make chase you. You have to go direct on half in order for her attraction mechanism to spike. If you don't she'll be cold and think you are less of a man for trying to sneak in. Eventually, she'll realize what you are up to and be turned off by the oily, slickness of it all.
Leaning back and trying to get her to chase you with that player vibe turns her completely off because she is looking for a serious, committed 1o1 relationship with a man who thinks she is special. He shows it by how hard he pursuits her, how ballsy he is with his intentions, and how attentive he is to her needs and desires.
You simply do not have full access to using a completely indirect or direct system. They disqualify you actually. The situation where you meet and her thoughts about sexuality also play a huge role, but I don't want to get into all of that here.
The reason why the numbers game doubles at 2.5 is because you learn how to identify these two different women at the beginning and you avoid disqualifying yourself.
The reason I labeled this level 2.5 is because you don't need it to get to level 3.
This is still just a yes girl system. You walk up to a girl who is attracted to you, but then you use the wrong style and you turn her off. 2.5 allows you to gain access to the women a strict abc formula can't because most of those focuse on either the direct or indirect realm specifically. Not every woman is attracted to a player/smooth talker. Some of them want you to put yourself out there and even be self effacing.
The direct opener I use that works tremendously is "(let her pass by me) (walk up and tap her on the shoulder to turn her around) (this makes it seem like I had to gather my balls for a second and impresses this type of woman) Hey, I just saw you from over there. I thought you were really cute, and I would be kicking myself later if I didn't come over and say hello. My name is (name+reach out hand to start kino)" The indirect chick will respond with a thanks or one word answer and get cold because I come off desperate to her conditioning. The direct chick will seem flattered and genuinely admire my courage. She'll respond with a smile, shake my hand, and tell me her name.
Now say I'm on the street and I walk up to the Direct girl and ask her for directions. She'll give me the directions and try to be on her way. I then have to stop her and get her into an indirect conversation about the environment or whatever. In her head she is wondering why I'm talking to her, and becoming suspicious of my intentions since she resonates with guys opening themselves up immediately. Then I start trying player shit on her and it turns her off completely.
I've recently learned how to prime women using stealthy tricks. Now, I actually know if she is a direct, indirect, or a no/maybe girl before I even start talking. It's a crazy ability. I feel so fucking powerful.
Level 3 addresses turning no/maybe women into yes women.
Now to your question.
I suppose if you manage to keep a direct woman or a no/maybe woman around you for 7 hours then sure she will probably develop some sort of attraction to you, but in the beginning you're swimming upstream. Most likely you will be rejected upfront. Finding one in the pack is like that blind pig finding a truffle in the forest.
Why would a woman who rejected you based off looks or social conditioning spend 7 hours in your presence? Why would she even spend more than a couple minutes/seconds talking to you? Why would she try and qualify herself to you? Why would she chase you? Why would she even listen to or hold weight of the opinions of a disqualified guy? Why would the "neg" do anything but make her feel that "ew, get the fuck away from me loser!" vibe? The MM seems like it's still only a system tailored towards indirect yes girls. Or club situations in general. Not no/maybe women.
Yes girls who are in the club or yes girls who respond well specifically to indirect styles.
The social proof tactic makes her attracted before you get to her. So you never experience the no/maybe aspect at all. Very smooth.
The JW tactic creates true love inside of the woman through a combination of attacks on her subconscious mind, her conscious mind, and her emotional guidance system. It's an ugly and rough pick up not smooth in the least, but effective.
I'm sure I'll be able to smooth it out as I field test the knowledge more. It's a method that takes what you already know and develops a unique style for you, and allows for the true love effect to overrule her social conditioning.
Mental Masturbation at it's finest!