Thanks for the help guys. One last thing....

If she sees me at the bar and does something like walks up to me and hugs me....wtf do i do then?

If I bump her off of me it'll look like she's affected me somehow. If I embrace the hug, it will look like I'm willing to overlook her behavior.

Don't bump her off. Call her bluff, and always be polite.

Immediately suggest you go somewhere else, etc.. Lead and see if she follows. If she doesn't no biggie. But she'll know you mean business.

Could be you're not being forward enough to suit her, which in case she's trying to prod you a little.

Just be cool and act like nothing happened before.

The last thing you want to do is make it obvious her behavior is getting to you, by getting as passive aggressive as she is or making a big deal out of her bullshyt. This is what young women do. Get used to it, if you want premium meat.

Of course you could excuse yourself and work other girls right in front of her. This will really make her blood boil. IMO you're allowing this girl to get too far under your skin. Which is the kiss of death. Remember all women especially those of the younger variety are master emotional manipulators. They've been socialized to do this stuff all their lives, and it comes naturally. Just act like it doesn't bother you. If it does find another girl. Because this one is liable to make you miserable or worse.

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First of all, unless you REALLY got something going for you, and it's OBVIOUS, a girl you've never met before is NOT likely to just walk up to you at the bar and give you a hug, unless of course she thinks you got money and wants to swindle a drink out of you.

Otherwise . . . "Hey that's enough. This ain't free. $20 please." After you've reciprocated the contact that she initiated. Or, "hold on now, we just met."

Man I have had the same problem. I get pissed but I learned if you get pissed girls take that shit as I WON! To piss a girl off just don't care, it's not important to you. Then they will be impressed and be like damn he's not a chump. If you get mad you might as well give her control on a silver plater. Control yourself don't let other people control you threw fucking with you man.

don't worry, you are not alone, i sometimes feel VERY ANGRY, and i get so pissed. and right now i am working on this, and have gotten pretty far.

one thing, never take anger managment, the thing you need is for YOU to tell yourself stuff, NOT someone else.

Stop punching the walls.

what i sometimes do is whenever i get angry i think to myself.

"i am in control, i am the master, and if anyone pisses me off, it's not them, it's me that makes me mad."

you NEED to be in control.

one thing you can do is put a rubber band on your hand, and everytime you feel angry, pull it, and let it loose on your hand ten times.

the phsycology is that you eventually learn, " wow, it is way easiar to just not be angry, and just be cool, calm, collective.

and you will succeed.

make it a goal to be COOL, CALM, COLLECTIVE.

I'm gonna post this one more time for those who may not have noticed it.

The Universal Law of allowing

The Universal Law of Allowing means dropping all judgments and all emotional attachments to what others are, have, or do. This is quite different from being tolerant. Being tolerant is not liking what someone else is or does and holding emotion-laden, negative thoughts about them, but letting them be or do it any way. Practicing The Universal Law of Allowing requires granting to others the same rights you ask for yourself -- the right to be, have, and do whatever you choose.

Basically this says live and let live.

Nobody owes you anything and nobody can read your mind. If you allow yourself to get pissed off every time someone doesn't act according to how you rationalize they should, in your mind, you're the one with the problem. As your anger is yours to control entirely.

This is AFC behavior.

Therefore if you want to get pissed at somebody, get pissed at yourself. And don't take it out on those around you.

Of course women are socially exempt from such rules.. Just the way it is. Better get used too it.

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Don't let her frame be stronger than hers.

Of ANGER: Use IT. Anger is strong emotion; when you feel it, it motivates you to do something. When angry, try to use it to motivate it; when you get angry again, remember it and use it to lover value of people who got you angry. Make sure you won't make the same mistake again!

Carpe Diem.

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