Text game can be great if you do it well.

Conversely, one or two bad texts and you can be gone.

I lost at least one, maybe two girls to that in the past month.

Totally understand what your saying. I just judge the character of the girl I'm texting being fully dominant doesnt always work ive found and can certainly make you look like a fool at times. If in person she acts bitchy she'll get dominant but if in person shes pleasant and coming onto me etc there is no need to do it i just build up a bond and use the bond to get nuts deep. I've done it for years and it works perfectly well if you know what to say and how to say it. As per the guy above one wrong text or a dirty text that she doesnt like can scupper your chances but i normally pull it back.

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That's cool man, thanks

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The more comfortable texting gets, the less comfortable she will be about actually meeting in person.

Why this happens: The longer a text conversation goes on, the more your "virtual" character develops. During prolonged texting the woman basically creates physical traits for you. Subconsciously she gives your texts body language, tonality, and even visual attributes. After a while she has created her own ideal image for you and she gets comfortable with interacting with that person. You basically become two different people; your "virtual' self which she enjoys and has developed comfort with and your "physical" self that she has no actual comfort with and your mannerisms will be different than she imagined. Which version of yourself is she more likely to want to interact with?

one gives her good feelings and she is safe with, the other COULD give her good feelings and safety but their will be an initial feeling of discomfort from the unknown.

How do i know this? Personal experiences. I also have a close friend who texts girls all day long. He acts pompous about it thinking hes hot shit. In reality they always make loose plans that never follow through. I always hear him say "Brittney and I are hanging out Saturday night." Come saturday he is chillin with me. I ask him what happened, he says shes getting drinks with her friend (female). He suggests they come meet up, and he gets the old "maybe after were done." I cant even count the number of times things like that occur with him.

If I text girls I keep it very short, witty, and very demanding.
Last night after the bar, this girl went home at two thirty with her friends. When i got home this is how the text went:
Me: Lets meet up quick and smoke a bit of weed.
Her: Lol but its late and i have to get up at 9, some other time.
Me: Not acceptable, meet me at jim's in 10 mins, i know a chill spot near there.
Her: lmao fine, but i cant drive, can you pick me up?
Me: If i remember the directions to Rachel's ill be there in ten.

we wound up sitting in the driveway for 45 mins

next morning.

Me: Your exam is Tuesday? We are going for a drink after too celebrate.
Her: Actually, i have two exams Tuesday. (then a second text) Oh and we are, are we?
Me: We are, but we'll have to make it two drinks now.
Her: lmao well im pretty sure i will need them after, sooooo i suppose that will work.

short, sweet and demanding but in a confident fun way that pretty much only allows her to answer with a yes.
hopefully Tuesday turns out but you can never count your chickens till they've hatched.

I think text game is something people should get good at or at least comfortable with. As with everything, the extent you text depends on your goals. If you're looking for girls to hookup with and that's all mutually, then you can just text to set up stuff. However, if you're dating someone for a serious relationship, you don't want to be the guy who only texts or contacts her to meet up, you have a good time, then you disappear for a while until next meet up. We live in a world where people are in constant virtual communication with each other so if you're dating seriously, you want to become part of each others lives, not people who go on dates sometimes. Oddly, all the old school game tactics that are claimed as outdated (negs, opinion openers, routines etc) the only real change in dating since the early 2000's has been texting has become a normal and everyday way of communicating.

i like the demanding texts i do this most times to set up a date. I dont boast about texting chicks to my friends or anything and i always keep them private. Thats a problem alot of AFC's have they tell a friend im texting this chick and before he knows it shes stopped texting because the chicks found out hes talking about her. May not have been anything bad but you basically shit on your own doorstep by doing this.

I number closed at the weekend on saturday night - Heres how the messages went-

Her- HEyyyyyy stevo ! I told you i would remember your face in the morning. Are you hungover??? xxx
Me- Well who the hell is this awakening me at this hour ? x (i knew who it was btw)
her - Its bla bla, from the bar last night ! you were saying how i wouldnt remember you and now you dont remember me x
Me - AWWWW i know who it is sorry you woke me up so the brain took a while to kick in. im not hungover atall just tired after last nights antics ! yourself ?x
Her - ooooh im sorry ! I thought you would have been awake ! yeah im sor hungover come snuggle ? xxx
Me - You can come over and snuggle later if you like im not shifting from my bed all day ! your call tiny ! x
her - I may just do that, takeaway and movies?xxx
Me - Take away and movies if you like but i pick the movies and takeaway ! x
Her - Well your very demanding lol but yes you can pick im rubbish anyways!! xx
Me - Ok text me later when your coming over im going for a nap since i was rudely woken. x

She text me around 4 asking what was a good time to come over - she came over and we fucked to the sweet sound of morgan freemans voice in the shawshank redemption lol ! Was a pretty easy close tbh

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Congrats on the sex but when a girl texts you 1st like that then it is pretty hard to not get laid.

I think noobs would benefit more from texts that when the girl was a little neutral and you can see you progression from neutral to attracted till she meets

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Yeah most definitely... the only reason she text first though was because she was attracted but because i used a tactic someone on here said... when you number close bet her she wont remember you tomorrow ! bet something like a date ! or whatever. That way your baiting her into text you.

Yeah noobs should definitely use it more because it can improve your closing game definitely.

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