I think I made it clear that I am Indian, when did I ever say I was Asian? Come on man that is like my fucking reputation on this forum for the longest time, indian guy who whines about his background limiting his success with women. Brantley I see SO MANY posts from you that have been good but how the hell could you not have picked that up?

And no I don't smell bad, I was raised using western standards in terms of hygiene but okay all Indians and Arabs apparently smell bad no matter what they do (your words not mines). But you pretty much stated that Indians/Arabs are hated by white women down south too so it seems like my failure might actually be based on that afterall according to you (just using your words not mines). I mean if I find an area of the world where

attractive
outgoing
cool
Indian guys with game

can have a lot of success with attractive white women then I would leave this forum forever and move there in a heartbeat but it seems like PUA FORUMS have made Indian guys an enemy and constantly shoved down my throat that I should feel bad for being the race I am. Then you guys get mad at me for expressing my insecurity when the reason I even have it in the first place is because you keep saying over and over and over again how Indian guys are handicapped when it comes to dating attractive guys.

And yes my mind is speculative which is why I wanted to get to the bottom of this shit and know where I can go in this world where how I look, carry myself, and present myself matter way more than what my background is.

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You have no right to call anyone whiney, you are a keyboard jockey that makes up his experiences is on my nuts every single time I post. Seriously dude, of all the people here, you need to be banned. Most posters here are sane, you sound like a psycho that might go off any minute in real life and people might get hurt. Get yourself together, get some real life experience, and then come to these forums. And please don't give advice if you are trolling this forum with hateful posts.

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I know we are PM'ing at the moment. But I'm going to make this reply public.

First, not sure where I got asian. I guess I don't pay too much attention to everyones every personal detail. My bad

As for you leaving the forum. You don't bother me. I do see a lot of blame being set if variables you have no control over. The south is a big place with a lot of wonen. There is racial bias here, yes. But you are seriously not the the leper in the courner. Plenty of Middle eastern people in the south get hot white mates. I think you are using location and race as a crutch for an alternative issue.

I don't think you should be ban. But you would do yourself a favorvto spend some time resding feild reports and just staying off line more. Certainly posting less. Not because you have nothing to add. But before anyone will take your posts seriously, you will need to first need to get your own situation under control.

True, I do need to post less and less and when I do post add more value rather than gain advice. Even with Middle Eastern looking people, some of them look completely white and different. I am talking more of Indian looking guys getting success with girls who are white in the dixie. Personally, as I have admitted, the only race of girls I have issues with are White and that has been an issue for a while now. I saw one Indian looking guy with a brunette but generally, an Indian guy with a White girlfriend or wife (let alone an attractive one) is unheard of from what I hear whether it is in the south or in Canada or just anywhere in the world.

If I met an Indian guy in real life that was living the life, dating attractive White girls on the regular, and had it all together, I would stop going on PUA forums in general but I have looked and looked, seems like I am doing better than most Indian guys I know.

I am not using my location as a crutch but I know that it is definitely a setback to be an Indian guy at least in the south (not going to speak for other minority groups) if you want to date attractive White girls, especially if they are involved in sororities. It is a fact that if I was a White guy, I would not be on this forum. With the amount of social skills I have and the fact that I don't have any form of approach anxiety, me being a White guy would make my life exponentially easier at least in this regard.

But I guess for some unknown reason life gave me darker skin and put in an area of America where interracial dating isn't well received. So far, I have met ZERO and I mean ZERO Indian guys who are living the player lifestyle and have plenty of women in their lives. If I ever do meet that Indian guy, I will stop going on internet forums, like forever, that will be it, that will be the end of it all, if I meet that Indian guy who has made it that will be the end of my time on this forum.

At that point, I will KNOW that the problem is me and that these girls hate me because I am not cool enough rather than the problem being the fact that I have darker skin.

Isn't it kinda fucked up? There are hundreds of MILLIONS of Indian men out there, you would think at least one would be living something similar to the playboy lifestyle and I would get to meet him in real life but every Indian guy I have met has been allergic to girls.

What frustrates me the most is there is nowhere I can talk about this peacefully. Like there is nowhere I can just sit down, chat with a few people online, and talk about the Indian guys people have known who have managed to do well with White girls and more specifically where in the world it happened. If that has happened anywhere in the south I am driving to that guy's house right now and paying him for lessons.

Guess we all have our downfalls. I can land a 9/10 Indian girl or a 9/10 girl from any minority background but attractive White girls are another story. The day I do better with them is the day I walk away from the forums and just live my life.

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And the feeling that continuously pops up for me is HOPELESSNESS. Like knowing that no matter what I do, what I become, and who I am, I won't get the kind of women I like because society and media have brainwashed them into hating men of my color. But the problem is my mind is too damn stubborn to just give up, get down on both knees, and admit defeat. I feel like an idiot for even trying to talk to girls that are White and attractive because a part of me believes no matter what I say, how I carry myself, or what I become, they will always reject me and see me as some dirty foreigner.

I guess that is what has accumulated after a lifetime of bad experiences with girls of that background. Some days I feel like letting it all out, talking about it, maybe trying to get an idea of where I can move in the US in which I will have a better experience and have the chance to hook up with and date women of ALL colors if I have the looks and game.

People keep telling me about these Indian guys who are cool and consistently date cute girls of all races, I have yet to meet one.

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Why squash someone who reveals his weaknesses to you?

We are all in the same boat, all for the same purpose, simply some of us are more capable sailors than others.

Toughen up mate, we're behind you

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Walt Disney

Despite being a borderline troll I can vaguely relate to your situation of seemingly being totally sidelined by society and no one giving a shit. Vent if you want I get it but there has to be a time when venting ends and action starts. Often the best way to get out of crumby situation is to make a radical life change and you finishing college might be it.

But one day you have to get out of bed and say "ok, from now on things are going to be different", no amount of pep-talk from guys on here is going to be enough because only YOU can do it. If your not ready to throw caution to the wind then fine, but admit to yourself that the sooner you do the better.

No one here can help you, only you can help yourself, and when you decide to do that it'll be the best decision you ever made.

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And what the fuck is your obsession with white girls?

To me the are 2 types of girls, hot girls and other girls. I don't give a flying fuck if she black blue pink or orange.

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I am just more naturally attracted to White girls, we all have our types. And plus the fact that most of the ones down here hate me for looking different just makes the attraction that make stronger.

As for change, I have had periods of my life when I felt immune to these feelings but right now being down with a flu and all that these feelings do comeback. Maybe graduating college and moving to a bigger city will be the final draw and end the feelings I have.

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Dude, guessing from your post count, you have no idea how many topics Paramount has started about race and college. He gets good advice but he rejects it all because he loves the drama and attention. He probably even loves the fact that I am typing this right now. Everybody has a right to ask for help, but sooner or later you need to tell the child who sits in the back of the car saying "ARE WE NEARLY THERE YET?" over and over again to shut the fuck up.

I genuinely want Paramount to get laid and settle down with a beautiful white Aryan blonde goddess so that he stops clogging up the forums repeating the same shit about race again and again.

P.s. @Paramount, India is in Asia = You are Asian. In the UK, "Asian" means Indian / Pakistani, not Chinese / Korean / Japanese. Hey we could be bro's! ♥♥♥

Jesus I've been away from the forum for a couple of months, come back and look who's got another pointless thread in the Lounge. Go see a therapist

*hugs*

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Asian and Indian men always have this weird obsession with white women. I honestly don't believe you're as attracted to white women as you believe. You've been programmed to see them as status symbols, and you put them on a pedestal. I know, because most cultures do that with white women, including black men. I think all the people that do this are dumb.

The ones down there hate you because you view them as a trophy and not a person. You view them as your ticket to social acceptance and not a woman you want to be with. I'd hate you too if I was your ticket to conformity.

Paramount21 take it easier with yourself, there are very few guys in the world who have it easy with woman and dating.
I've lived in 3 countries now( going for the 4th in two weeks) and as a foreigner (minority) things are a little bit more difficult. In bars and clubs even with my 5'6 I've much more success than the average guy over here and still to my opinion and to what I want in my life it sucks and since I do not see how things can improve in the future for me in this place, I'm moving once again.

Anyway in my long experience in the community I haven't seen 1 single guy starting as a AFC and becoming a player. I've seen players continue being players. Shy AFC guys turning into opening machine freaks( I was one of them). And lots of AFCs becoming arrogant "I understand everything about human psychology" AFCs who want to show off and appear as experts by reciting others what they learned about something that they downloaded illegally last night.
Those last once are easy to identify, I personally do not see why invest energy and time with them.

Some advises for you:
Stop pitying yourself, we all want to find someone that feels some compassion for our sad particular case... But it is a big trap: you'll be less attractive as a person, in case you find this/these person(s) you are not going to become happier, and you'll drag them in your misery.
Stop entering into discussions with people who "already know everything".
Become proud and responsible about your actions not your results.

Ya that is the scary thought, just how much our past fucks us up. Like how my past of being an AFC could stop me from being a player because of all the limiting beliefs and terrible experiences I had with women growing up. Not to mention that I didn't have anything close to a role model to help show me the way.

Are you sure you haven't seen 1 AFC become a player before?

Now as for the White girl thing, I never really had much interest in white girls until I was surrounded by them on a daily basis. I mean we have black girls too but I am not that attracted to black girls at all, the reason is mainly because I prefer girls with a skin color lighter than mines and I don't care if you guys pull the bullshit defense of "well how do you expect for white girls to give you a chance if you don't give black girls a chance?". I don't care, I just do, that's me. In my case I am friends with a few black girls but the attraction isn't there, the white girls I am talking about (sorority girls) won't even think of being friends with a guy who looks Indian because in their little world a guy is automatically a bad person because he is Indian.

Then when I noticed that girls of other races were being super kind to me and white girls were the ones being extremely rude and treating me like garbage, I started to develop this whole "we want what we can't have" mentality.

And honestly, from this point on I don't care if I have to talk to 10,000 blondes and get rejected, I will talk to 10,001. I want to significantly improve my results with White girls (specifically blondes) until my subconscious can take them off the pedestal. Nothing anyone in here can say will stop me from going after the kind of girls I like.

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