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what i meant was, do you think that people are going to find their perfect match, all by themselves..? i can imagine God having been revealed in this world an saying, look at'em go all by themselves
If you think in 4 billionish women you can only find one woman that feels perfect for you then you're crazy.
There is something imperfect about every woman... something that will annoy this shit out of you
... and something you do will annoy the shit out of her. That's life between the sexes.
Your belief structure is "soulmate" and the "perfect match" and that is honestly quite ignorant. The best matches aren't "perfect matches" from many perspectives from interests to personalities.
In fact most anthropologists and biologists feel love really only lasts about 2-3 years... so yeah if you want to be happy dating someone "long term" then you have to work at it, relationships are hard work and at least in America most folks don't want to put in the work or even have the grit to make a relationship last beyond the initial "love" period.
Focus on finding a woman that feels right, but don't look for the perfect match because that's bull shit.
As far as the whole "god watching us" well that's whatever...
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