| Last weekend I went out and tried out some new things. As I walked into the bar I took a few steps in and just stood there with a big smile for about 20 seconds until I made eye contact with 3 women from 3 different sets. Instantly I approached one closest to me sitting at a table with a friend. I grabbed my targets hand and introduced myself with a smile and told her "Come on, the party is over here." She took my hand and walked about 5 steps over to my table, which was in sight of her stuff and her friend (very important not to make her commit too much trust too soon). After a few fluff questions and teasing I went back to her friend at the table who looked lonely, annoyed, and in disbelief of what I just did. I said to the friend, "you look lonely, but no worries I'm inviting you to a party next door." She laughed and joined us unaware that I just removed my only obstacle for the night.
After a little banter with the two girls I rolled off and got a drink for myself. When I came back my target was on the phone, and I interrupted and reminded her she was already with the coolest people at the moment and asked her what could possibly be so urgent. She replied "I'm calling some friends to make your party more enjoyable (sucking her into your reality by owning the frame and leading from the start)." Then she said "so when am I getting your phone number?" I told her "I liked where our relationship was at the moment, and I didn't want to rush things." Then I told her she was at a 5 out of 10, and if she got up to an 8, by my standards, then I would give her the number."
This all went down in about 10 minutes from the initial approach, and at about the 25 minute point two of her hot friends showed up (the ones she called earlier). I met them, and rolled off again to the back of the bar (this sub-communicates that you are used to a lot of attention and aren't impressed or too eager to win over the new friends). At the back of the bar I noticed two 21 year old hot chics that were chatting with a friend (he's not in the community so he let me move in and played the AFC role). I rolled into the set with energy and put the better looking of the two on "party patrol", telling her she could come join our party if she could recruit other fun girls to join, but if she failed she would be the little beggar girl on the outside looking in. Then I playfully teased her about her accent and she grabbed me and said "Oh you're fun, I love you" and kissed me." This is proof fellas that the wallflower is destined to cry in his beer, and the guy making ridiculous request will often get the girl to follow by sucking them into their fun reality.
When I returned to my table I saw a girl whom I ran solid game on 2 weeks before, who remembered me. I was locked in, and her and my original target kept coming in and out competing for my attention. One would try to AMOG the other by stealing me away to dance, or talking shit about the other. I gave both equal amounts of validation throughout the entire night to keep this frame balanced and continuous as it built my social proof. Apparently this worked, because when I rolled off again to go up to the bar, one of the friends of my original target followed me. As she approached I stood back a bit, smiled and said "Oh no, you again. You're trouble." She leaned in gave me a gentle kiss and slipped me her number. In her gin soaked, Tara Reid way she whispered, "Call me." (Girls are scandalous back stabbers).
The night ended with me leaving the set open for another encounter with party patrol girl, number closing my targets friend, still building rapport with the girl from 2 weeks ago, and allowing my original target to number close me when the lights came up and the bar closed. Making a girl wait to get your number is so effective. If you pull this move of making her get to 8 before getting your number, be sure at the end of the night to smile at her when you tell her she made it to 8 and say, "Wow, I didn't think you would get there, but you just made it. You almost blew it." This joking manner doesn't make you come off as a dick with crazy high standards, even though most of us are.
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