I've got a girl in an open relationship. I get info. that she f-closed another guy aka AMOGSuspect. Now I don't mind this. So long as she keeps that shit to herself.

BUT.

I'm helping her move some of her bags to some guys house. 2 and 2 DO NOT go together. YET. I say "Lets go check it out. See what his place is like." And carry a bag upstairs. She grabs some bags and so does he. She says "Its right down there, last on the right"

Once inside the place. Thats his turf. And I get the impression that this is not a good place to be in. It lowers my value being there with him in his place. Come over to my place, and its a different story.

Anyway. I hang outside. and Im expecting her to come back with me. I say that I want to leave. But she is about to stay with him in his apartment as I'm about to leave. NOT Cool.

I find a way to get back in saying that her housemate is going to need my car. So we'll have to leave back together to drop it off. She's just finished in the toilet. Obviously been there before. Now I start DLVing the crap out of this guy. And he's a total dumbass and has no idea what Im doing. But HB knows exactly what I'm doing.

I screen. and every time I do he DLVs. Like he was drunk on this day. He was staying at backpackers. he doesnt have a car. He gets to work in a van. But she starts to stick up for him now. "He went to the kiss concert. How cool." But I keep directing convo for him to DLV. I also DHV twice. I'm clearly more dominant out of the two.

Anyway. I leave with her. And she says to me "He's awesome. He's such a great guy." I don't disagree. "How do you like his place?" "Not bad"

I leave with the impression that he's a loser.

Any tips / pointers??

Open relationships? ooohhhh boy. I got nothin. Just wait til Zip rolls around.

Second AMOG incident.

Its lunch time at work. And we're around the table. I had HBNewcastle attracted. DHV. Body language. Kino Takewaway. Excellent conversational rapport. More DHVs.

Anyway. He is holding court for a while. I turn up and make my sandwiches. He's talking about Top Gun.

AMOGMammasBoy: Its cool in Top Gun how many times they say Dangerous. Then there's guys whipping each other with towels in the changing rooms and stuff.
Me: Is that you're favourite part?

HBObstacle laughs.

But people start getting up and leaving after that and so do I. But then HBNewcastle and AMOGMammasBoy stay on and chat for ages after that.

It seemed to raise his value??

Anyway. I get him after that. She goes "Hey guys. what do you think this is?" to both of us. I get it right.

Next time she had a question to came to ask me directly. When this happened AMOGMammasBoy left. So I won. In the end.

Thoughts on this?? I'm more interested in the first incident though.

On the second amog incident, you seemed to handle well.On the first though, I got the impression you were trying too hard to amog him that It worked in his favor.If your target knows your trying to amog a male obstacle, she'll know you think of him as a treat and it will higher his value. If your amoging another fella make sure you come off as friendly and suggestive, rather than direct.

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What u did to that guy sounded like pure jealously. You saw the girl was going to stay with him your defenses turned on with the thought that she might actually mess around with that guy so you felt the need to hate on him and in the end it backfired on you GOOD JOB.

you would have been better off not trying to make the guy look bad and just rolled out when you were going to the 1st time he did nothing to wrong you. In the paragraph you talk bout how he has no car and rides a van to work So what?? you're hating on the dude big time

Open relationship means you don't care what she's doing with other guys as long as you get yours. Seems like your trying to hide the fact you care more about what she does on her time then you're letting on.

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