So I'm back again. It's been a few months now since I was active with sarging. Stopped completely when I got my last gf.
The problem is that I've totally lost EVERYTHING I had learned. And now that I've broke up with the girl, I am interested in another one. But don't know how to proceed...

She is a friend of my "ex ex", wich means, the girl I had before my last gf. We're only friends at the moment but I want to take it further. Any ideas on how I should do?

Thanks a bunch!

/R.O

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Oh oh im full idea's.
Not always good ones, but lots of idea's.

My first one would be: why dont you let us know alittle more, like fill us in on some of the key details. Like how long have you known her, i take it a while. How much have you seen each other since you first met. What happened the last time you seen her. This doesnt exactly mean you're in the friend zone just because you've known her for awhile.
But some of these minor details make it alot easier for people to help you.

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haha, details coming up
I got to know this girl through one of my previous girlfriends. We've known eachother for about 7 months, but we've only met regularly the last few weeks.
She's been openly interested in another guy, but he's rejected her constantly. Now she's giving me IOI's and kino. But I'm not certain if they are signs of real interest or if she is just a "touchy" and "IOIich" kind of person. hard to tell since I haven't spend so much time with her.

Things we've done:
We've been to 2 parties together. In both she danced with other people and I was too much of an AFC to go in there and take control. Last weekend we went bowling and had a really good time. A thing to add here is that we haven't been together the 2 of us alone, it's always been in a group of 4 or more people.

IOI's
She's been kinoing me more than she used to do, e.g playfully hitting my chest. Wich I take as an IOI.

2 weeks ago we hade been to a party and was walking to another one. On the way she hurt her feet and couldn't walk. Naturally no other dudes in our group wanted to help her. So I "valiantly carried her to our new destination" hehe. She thanked me by kissing my cheek a few times.
This I considered as a mix of IOI and "drunk girl behaviour"

Other than this we haven't done much more. Tomorrow we're going to play in the newly fallen snow. Any ideas on something I can do here?

Thanks for the help guys, really appreciate it

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If you think you're seeing IOI's, useually they're IOI's. You gotta trust your instincts. If it walks like a duck, sounds like a duck, its a fucking duck. Search threw lists of IOI's and see how many of those see's been doing/giving. If she's not had a BF for a while (3 weeks+) then they become more active in their search, this the best time, dont hang about. Up the kino, dont act as if a friend would, act as if a new seducer on the sceen or a BF would. Get her alone and escalate normally threw the phases.

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