Everyone tends to look at how you can do things right and talk about things that go well.

Well...I have a lot of success but at times make mistakes so my most common ones tend to be:

1. Over Negging

When I first learned about negging I couldn't believe how effective it was. But then I kept it going because i seen it working well. If the girl is HB 7 or less then it's probably going to make her think she doesn't have a chance and give up

I used it too much on occasion and really knocked their self confidence

2. Showing Interest too Soon

If she is not giving you IOI's (indicators of interest) then don't try and make any moves. Neg / DHV (demonstration of higher value) until you get some signs out of her.

If she is really not interested then just move on, dance with other girls or chat with other women...be the centre of the conversations and you will start to notice her attention pickup.

3. Make excuses on openers

Don't make an excuse on openers, sometimes there really is an excuse like the music is too loud so you can't really talk but just go for things. What do you have to lose?

A good mindset i like to adopt is...if you dont make an opener you are going to regret it for a week or two, just think that you dont want all that again until you next go out. Yet, if you go for the opener, even if you get rejected its still progress and you are doing more than 99.9% of the worlds men by approaching random women.

Good post overall, and especially this last paragraph.

2. Showing Interest too Soon

This one is hard for me to avoid. When I'm taking to a girl and I find something in common I lean in without thinking about it and get very talkative. It killed me today.

That's actually a really common mistake to make man. Just don't beat yourself up over it. Remember what you're doing so you don't repeat it next time.