In this world. It's called equality something feminists nowadays have wayyyyy long abandoned. No one speaks up for this. I will. I said, if a guy invites you out then, cool. He should pay. The problem here is that you think he should spend at least 50 dollars .

ALL RELATIONSHIPS WILL EVENTUALLY REACH A SEXUAL COMPONENT.


If you think you don't have to pay the next time, then that's a problem. I am trying to see what's wrong with treating one another equally ? Split down the middle...omg, that's terrible! How dare I treat you like an equal peer.

If you're rationalization is "i make 10 dollars an hour and I am a student" then don't get upset about a 10 dollar beer. Hell. Don't get upset when I invite you over to my house and I want to cook dinner there. Hell of a lot cheaper for me in the end. Doesn't make me a cheapskate, it makes me smarter financially.



And you're a big girl, you could have voiced your opinion to this guy. Did you consider this guy to be your boss or your dad ? Like I said men are to blame because they don't have the BALLS to ask a woman to pay. They lack the assertiveness because they are afraid they won't get sex. Guys in todays society think this is the only way to go. I am here to tell them they don't have to do this. If the girl wants to contribute let her contribute. Since we live in a "I'm an independent woman I dont need no man" then let her ass be an independent woman. If she's so sure about that statement why is she pouting when you aren't shelling out more than 10 dollars on your outing for her.

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When did I say at least $50? I said $50 isn't that expensive for 2 people. It's average nowadays. I NEVER said a date should cost at least $50.

Why are you choosing to ignore some parts of my argument but inflate others? Did you not read that I paid $200 for a date once? And I didn't expect him to have sex with me!

Secondly, did you not read the part about how he liked fancy dining? He had a strong dislike for anything or anyone cheap.

Voiced my opinion? Did you not read the part about where I offered to pay, and he rejected my contribution?

Lastly, a man of your character and a woman of my character would never mesh, and not just financially speaking. Everything speaking. Because everything, including time, effort and emotions, have to be split down the middle. God forbid someone does a little extra more, it's payback time next time.

You want women, but deep down, there's some hate you have against them. Hate sex isn't rewarding at all.

You say men today are wired to think that paying gives them sex? Guess what? There's older less attractive women that want the hot young muscular pool boy....and they are also wired to think pay to play. But nobody bats an eye to that.

You hate how women 'expect' men to pay for dates. I hate how you' assume' the chicks you're dating make less than you. I tried dating men below my educational level. Didn't work out. Bruised their ego or something 'cause they ended up with chicks on their level.

oh come off it. You have an expectation of how much a date should run. You scoff at a man paying for a 10 dollar beer. You have a price tag. And it isn't expensive to you because you're not the one paying 50 dollars. If you were paying your share then that's perfectly fine. You mock the guys who pay 50 dollars and don't get sex. I am insinuating you want him to keep taking you out on more dates. When you do have sex, you will have gained financially, and he will finally get sex.

Prostitution.


I am ignoring parts of your argument because you bring an anomaly to the table. You paid 200 dollars how many times in your life? Just that once? Oh poor baby.

If I were to ask you to think back about all the free gifts, vacations, and items you received from men this will rack up the the hundreds of dollars and even to thousands of dollars of free things just because you're a woman.




I never said anything about time effort and emotions. I am arguing about the wallet and the expectations. The only resources I spend nowadays is time, effort and emotions without breaking my bank account. Don't change the subject.


Deep down, I want to see women as my equals. Like I said there is a unspoken commandment that if I criticize a woman, I hate them. I love women. I love women who treat me like an equal. And women love me when they finally get a man who doesn't try to impress them and genuinely likes them for who they are and who isn't feeling emasculated because she is as capable as he is.



I never said I thought a woman makes less than me. I never thought she is too poor to buy me dinner next time in my life. I think she is my equal from the start. You are confusing gender and ability. I think a woman is more than capable to do the same job I do if she can do it just as good.


I never said men aren't to blame. Guys nowadays are wimps. I criticize behavior. Not gender.

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Oh yeah, how many times have you paid $200 for 1 outing in your life? You just told me you haven't spent more than $22 on a date.

I don't mock the guys who pay $50 and don't get sex. I think it's absurd that they are expecting sex for paying dinner after they've invited the chick and offered to pay! I sure didn't expect sex when I shelled out $200.

It's very clear to me you want to paint me in one color, and one color only, hence you are ignoring specific things I've written. It doesn't matter what I say. You already made up your mind a long time ago.

And answer me this, why do so many men nowadays have issues if she's more educated, bigger income? All of a sudden, they don't want to date her anymore. You're telling me a big CEO can't get himself an HB10 that's also educated and a high earner? BULLSHIT. He can but so many opt not to because they want to have that power over her so she doesn't leave. Real life's full of these scenarios.

You still haven't answered how many free dinners, vacations , and drinks you've gotten over the years . And the free gifts.

In the last two years I said the most I've spent so far is 22.50 cents on a date. A date. I've been on multiple dates. This adds up over YEARS compared to your anomaly of 200$ at once. If we tallied up the amount of times you had to pay vs the things you've gotten for free just because you were a woman you would see. And I already said men are to blame. They think they have to pay to play. I'm over here smirking with a twenty dollar bill and getting sex in less than three dateS. That 50 dollars , I can spread over three dates easily.


I'm not painting you in any color. I read what I read and tell it like it is. You have a price tag. Pay to play. And you are clearly not reading the part where I say men are part of the problem. If I told these men that they didn't have to shell out cash like that they wouldn't do it. And the men that setup scenarios where they are the man and the provider will be just that, the provider. Pretty much dehumanizing women.

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Wait.

" I'm over here smirking with a twenty dollar bill and getting sex in less than three date$. "

And that isn't legalized prostitution? A $20 date isn't legalized prostitution but a $50 date is?

Damn, if the chicks you banged read this line....

Yeah, I've gotten way more from men. But I always offered to pay on initial dates and most declined. Is that still my fault?

I said men are at fault are also at fault. I'm not blaming it all on the women


It is legalized prostitution if the girl thinks I'm going to keep doing that. the first date is free . On me. I invite . After that if she still assumes that I'm taking her out again, I will knowingly take her to a place where the prices won't be so high. Or better yet, free. If she declined and wants to go out somewhere where I have to take out my wallet I will ask her to pay her share.


The girls that read that will be the girls that say "well I pay sometimes or we split it" and it won't apply to them.

But I entertain the materialistic girls too. I make sure it's the cheapest form of prostitution. And when I sleep with them they will always say "I'm used to being wined and dined more than this" to which I will smile and give them a kiss because I know that I don't have to spend much to get her vagina juices flowing if at all. pretty much girls like you. The guy that gave you spaghetti and water was right on the money.

It's hilarious that girls think it's slutty to sleep on the first date and it's okay on the second or third date. That is some logic!

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I never had sex with him. Didn't even kiss him.

I've probably went on a total of 3 dates with dudes like you. Smelled them from a mile away, just like you smell 'my type'. Didn't end up in sex.

I don't sleep with dudes on 2nd, or 3rd date either. You just put that in there.

I don't think we'd make it to the second date. I'd ask you to pay or pay for yourself and you'd be putting up your nose in defiance. If you do pay. And you are under the impression that waiting some makes you valuable, you're setting up yourself as a conquest. When a football players scores a touchdown the coach doesn't tell him to sit and take it easy. He tells the player to go out and get another touchdown. You're setting yourself up for failure.

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