There is not faking or trying to be like anybody else, just be, if is congruent with you and your personality...


Faking=neediness...

Just be.

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I still think there's a place and time for direct game. I also use indirect game in many other situations (smaller social circles, etc). In many situations, by simply approaching a girl, it will be ASSUMED that you're trying to pick her up (why else are you going to be approaching a girl at a grocery store? She won't buy your questions... Same goes for a club... By pussyfooting around the issue you could lower your value, since the girl will read your intentions from the start (regardless of frame).
By going up to a girl and telling her she's cute and asking her name, I'm showing interest. I'm also showing that my time is valuable and that I don't have the time nor motivation to stand around trying to be friendly and cool while hoping she'll start acting attracted to me. It shows confidence and the readiness to be shot down in flames. Finally... It's just so much more practical... Once you get over the AA... it saves you from so many bullshit conversations.. Finally, I pay attention to my appearance (compulsive gym, compulsive acne SPAM, matching clothes, neat hair, etc). It's usually enough to get me at least some interest in the beginning.
I'll be the first to admit. I'm a social guy, yes, but I'm very picky about who I socialize with, to the point of being asocial in groups of random people if I don't have an agenda. When I go to parties with strangers, I'm a chatterbox and I have a group around me listening to all the BS I have to say.You have no idea how exhausting that is. I do it because I don't want to be the weirdo in the corner, so I become mr. social and talk to people I don't care about telling me things I don't care about. When I got dragged to parties I didn't really care to be at, and knew everyone there, I would sit on my phone on the sofa and not care to talk to anyone unless they sat next to me and started a conversation. Most women I like to socialize with platonically, I don't find attractive. Most HBs do have the personality of a wet towel, and I'm not about to go off looking for "the one" that has the whole package. I have, what I would consider to be good conversational skills, but 90% of the conversations I have, I have 0 interest in. It's just for keeping up appearances and getting what I want. Why put myself through the pain of having to listen to what every HB has to say, without even knowing that she's interested?

Direct game is the most powerful game of all, honestly it's only for guys with super strong inner game.

Most guys that can't fathom it working don't have the frame to work it.

There are two types of guys that walk up and tell a chick she is beautiful....

One that is submissive and one that is confident.

A confident man walks up with a massive amount of value and says something to her but it's no big deal, he doesn't give a fuck if she does or doesn't find him attractive, he is not attachment based. In other words even after he shows interest he does not invest....

Now the submissive one on the other hand walks up, says your beautiful and stares at his toes, rubs the back of his neck, and is slumped over.

A man that can walk up to a woman, and smile, stop, then look her in the eyes confidently.... Then says "You're beautiful, what was your name?" With an expectation of an introduction will do very well with women with direct, of course it helps if he is well put together (dresswise and grooming yourself).

That is the thing guys, the reason a pua needs these bull shit opens is because he needs to hide his neediness.... you don't need an excuse to open a woman, walking up and showing interest is BOSS! It's high value and it's better then any other open if you have the frame for it... this means being high value, not like Trump but in a lot of ways a lot more....

IMO Confidence + Direct = THE MOST BOSS STYLE

It's not what you say it's how you say it.... that is just being real.

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Vic

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Well that highlights it. They don't even work for you, so you'll never get to say that in the correct context. Come back to reality. The behaviour needs to change.

Holy shit this thread is old!

From before Trump was a presidential candidate even... and looking back I saw this in reply to my comments:


You know, I didn't know much about Trump back then. Now, however, I know this is complete bullshit. He was literally handed a $600 million company by his dad. He literally does sit at his desk barking orders, and has tons of bankrupt companies because of it. In fact, in each bankruptcy his business partners force him out of control because he's so shit at running businesses.

He's absolutely the epitome of incongruence. Even the guy who actually wrote his book can tell you that: http://www.npr.org/2016/07/21/486924253 ... -president

Your bud that owns a club doesn't fuck every girl. Some don't care about his status. But since they never agree to go to the back room, he can act like they don't exist.

It's a bad anecdote used as evidence of a wrong idea

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I think it's safe to say both men and women are attracted to status. Women more so, but nonetheless status is what attracts us human beings to one another.

But as far as acting like Donald Trump, how long can you pull that off before the truth comes out? Look, if you're the CEO of some Fortune 500, then you can back up your cocky confidence with this. But what if you aren't? What if your job title is way below that? How long can you pull that stunt for? What if you're a history teacher....are you really going to act like Donald Trump?

As far as being rude to women, sure, that might work with some women, but it'll exclude others. You might attract a certain time, but not other types if you keep continually using rude words.

Lol way to bring back a thread from the grave.

As far as you telling me how my life works..... Pffft! Are you shitting me? Who the fuck are you? Why would I want to listen to you?

I'm happy. Don't you worry about me kiddo. I'm fine just the way I am now.

The girls in my life do "work for me," pal.

I run my life like a business. I handle my shit and don't let anyone slow me down. Women included. I'm building an empire.... and if you're not helping, "you're fired." Get the fuck out.

Oh, and as for YOU telling me what I should and shouldn't do, (still find that funny) this is me politely telling you to fuck off.

He's got plenty of failures but that's how you learn isn't it?

He was fortunate to be handed all that money so he could learn all of those business lessons. Anyone who has ever owned a successful business knows that it doesn't matter how many times you fail, you've only gotta be right once.

I will say that my opinion on Trump has changed over the years (I like Mark Cuban much more) but I still would say he's a good business man. He's made some errors but I'm pretty sure he's made more money than all of us combined. The fact that he knows how to work the system and use bankruptcy to his advantage only makes me respect him a little more. He knows how to use loopholes.

Cuban I could get behind. Note that Cuban doesn't seem all that impressed by Trump, and in fact people have done the math to show that Trump's basically lost money by trying. He could have stuck his inheritance in an index fund and he'd be wealthier now.

Also don't forget that at every single bankruptcy his business partners forced him out. Not something I'd expect to happen to a savvy businessman.

Oh, and now he wants to pay Russia to hack classified information. Because, you know, every Presidential candidate should be openly committing treason.

Trying to act like James Bond is ridiculous. But it's also ridiculous to act like Donald Trump. Why? Because you're not Donald Trump. When I'm developing my game, I'm trying to find my own style. That works pretty good. Not perfect, but I'm on my way.

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