If a salesman is asking "what can I say to this person to make them buy my shit?" The potential customer will notice the salesman is trying to bamboozle them into buying some shit. If you are trying hard to sell something, it is perceived to have less value, things that have high value sell themselves for the most part.

If a salesman is asking "What qualities can I encompass, and what points can I focus on to increase my sales?" The shit will sell more.

The analogy... It is not very productive to ask about "one girl" or what can I text this "one girl" to sell myself?
What you should be asking, is what qualities should I work on, and what triggers should I focus on switching to increase my percentages of success. Be the big picture guy, they get ahead. and head

Developing your game and marketing yourself to women effectively is just the same as building a business and marketing yourself to customers effectively.

The more attractive you are as a man - The more women you will have attracted to you - The better your pick up skillset - The more of these women you can start an interaction with and convert into sex.

The better your business product - The more customers you will have attracted to the product - The better your sales skills - The more of these customers you can start an interaction with and convert into a sale.

The part that a lot of guys seem to miss out is that this actually takes massive amounts of dedication and hard work to get yourself into the top bracket of men who are successful with women and the same also applies in business.

Just like anything in life worth achieving.

Yawm

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