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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 4:24 pm 
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maybe someone already said this BUT you need to read Double your dating and your view of these "games" and what not will completely change. mine did.

and as for getting laid. No you don't need to know any of these gaming tactics. just go out, get drunk and bring someone home...


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 3:04 am 
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The aim of Pickup-artist training is not just to help you get women bro...

I think it helps you develope an attitude that is liked by women.... and makes you a stronger and better guy....

some guys are natural... they get girls without learning.... others like us have to learn.

And if you havent succeeded in getting a girl being yourself... then you shud try these techniques... these people know a lot about women.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 3:41 am 
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Do you really need to learn all of this pick-up techniques to get laid? It sounds like so much work, and I feel like all of it sounds un-natural. Whatever happened to just being yourself? I have done acting in high school. The Mystery Method sounds like acting. You have to plan in advance your opener, you have to have a lot of stories on you. Its all BS. Obviously there may be some people out there who are successful with this, but it just sounds so un-natural. Me, personally, I have a hard time being creative with things to say, which is why I don't try that much. What do you do?
. . . said the virgin . . .

sorry man, but has what you've done so far worked? no? ok then, would you rather complain . . . or get laid?


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:34 am 
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Don't think of it like changing yourself, or being fake. Think of it like learning to play an instrument. You can't pick up a guitar and just play it by being yourself, you have to learn how. Sure at first when you play an instrument you play songs written by composers other than yourself. However eventually you can write your own music.
I think of learning the game like that.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 12:07 pm 
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At first I thought the same.. "Can't I just be myself like all the others?"

No.

There are very few naturals in a lot of different areas in life.

Take a famous CEO. How many seminaries of public speaking, team management, leading skills etc.. did he do? He developed himself to become a better person, and at a specific point, you start to integrate that person.

If you don't do this, you can struggle in life while never recognizing your own person. For example, if you buy flowers for a woman and give her a lame line like "I'd do anything for you, I'd even die for you!", is that honest, is that being yourself?

NO ! That's being someone else also. You're not being yourself here.

I read this quote on this forum from someone "I change everyday"

That's important in life. Changing and improving and becoming a better person.. And eventually the more stuff you are supplied with, the more stuff you can integrate in your personality and become a better person.
Peace


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