Hello, I've been studying and practicing much the techniques and such for months now, and I've had some success, but there is a problem. even with all I've attempted to learn I am still making many mistakes, and then I figured out why I believe this is happening. It's my lack of focus. the lack of focus on actions and reactions to be specific. I've always had issues with paying 100% of my attention to just one or two things, and in environments like bars, clubs, etc. it becomes hard to stay attentive. especially since I live in smaller city/town and I know everyone so Im constantly having to meet and greet others, add alcohol into that mix and then it's like I have the attention span of a house cat! But basically, im asking if anyone had similar problems and what they did to help it. And no, I don't take medication, I used to but it's quite difficult to get these days.

Can you pro-actively focus since it's stopping you from get laid?

You're probably just getting too drunk, I'd start with that.

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Well quitting drinking would be a fantastic start. You'd be amazed how sexy it is when you actually remember a chicks name.

Get medicine or smoke weed, come here and say thank you.

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Carpe Diem, Dolce Vita...

Psychal power comes through Mental strenght.

I mean, you say you've been studying a lot. Honestly, there isn't a ton to study. If you know you have a specific sticking point, yeah it can be helpful. But it kind of sounds like you're trying to learn all of the piles of theory that really don't amount to much in the way of results.

Seduction is pretty simple. It basically boils down to looking good, finding the girls who think you look good, hitting on her, making physically moves on her, and being normal throughout the process. Being charismatic does help somewhat, but it's really far down on the list.

Unless the things you're studying are body language, eye contact, and vocal tonality, I wouldn't worry too much about it. That other stuff plays a very minor role at best.

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This is a great idea. I have a good friend who pulls dimes like no other. In order to consistently score AND keep 10/10 babes, you need to be able to do multiple things. Yeah, you've gotta get her drunk and just go for it. And yeah, you have to figure out how to convince her you are somehow decent at sex. That stuff's hard, and I'm still lost.

But what I do know is how to handle date #2 to get that girlfriend sex. My friend writes down a list of conversation topics and questions. Usually on a piece of paper but sometimes even on his arm underneath a buttonup. Then he always has something to talk about. If he forgets how the cube goes, he can just refer to his script.

Pro tip: dont out your notes on your phone, bro. This is only for the most experienced sargers. When you're a beginner, give her your undivided attention. She'll be pissed if you're staring at her phone the whole time and not her tits. Once you bang a few, then start texting other girls during the whole date so she knows you've got other people on standby if she sucks.