Over the last year or so, I have noticed a growing number of blog posts from women, articles and twitter hashtags regarding harassment from men. I read all the blog posts I saw pop up on facebook etc, and while a majority of them seemed valid (in that the behaviour of men described is clearly inappropriate) still a fair number of them described men just being direct in their intentions, pretty much running a direct game. And even though these men didn't lay a hand on the woman or anything like that, the writers of these pieces describe feeling scared, unnerved, violated etc, merely at the offer of a coffee date. And of course all these pieces have comment sections at the bottom filled with women sharing similar experiences. The impression one gets from it all is that women hate and even fear a strange mans approach. It seems as though these days the only way for a man to meet a woman is either through a warm approach or through internet dating.

I'm wondering why this is occurring. It could be because the media and especially social media is putting far too much weight on the odd cases where a man has sexually harassed a women, thus creating fear. As with all crime, the fear of crime is out of proportion to the actual crime rate. Or is it because recently we have seen a rise in feminism and the rejection of the patriarchy, resulting in a rejection of the traditional methods of courtship? Are we going to see a reemergence of indirect game and the MM style of attraction?

Personally, I very rarely use direct approach because I'm just not that very good at it, however I think it would be a terrible shame if it were to become too taboo.

Is this problem real though? Are the women who write these things and the hundreds who comment actually fearing every man who approaches them or looks at them, or are they just jumping on some bandwagon, or even a cry for attention and sympathy. Are the feelings of a small number of women being amplified to loudly? I dont know.

What's everyone's thoughts? Are their any direct game veterans who have noticed a change in dynamics?

The majority of those women aren't worth approaching anyway.

The most attractive women I know, never complain about this kinda shit. They don't mind it as much as one would think.

It is happening though man, masculinity is being marginalized more and more every day. Women wan the right to do whatever they want, but want to remove our rights do whatever we want. Now I'm sure there are a few cases that are worth paying attention to, but we shouldn't let a few bad apples ruing the system. I'm going to direct approach no matter what. Whether they make laws against it or not. Men should fight for our right to express ourselves as masculine if we so choose to. Men have always approached women, we're just becoming pussies now and not fighting for masculinity, while women are fighting to be feminism. If a gazelle walks by a lion he is going to growl. Now imagine the gazelles bonded together and said the growl makes them uncomfortable. That don't want to live amongst lions, but don't want the lions to growl. And so someone went around removing all of the lions voice boxes so they wouldn't growl. The gazelles would eventually get bored of shit. The natural order of nature is in place for a reason. They start removing that away and women will start dating each other more, as they already have.

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Considering 2015 was an absolute offendedfest, where people would get offended over literally anything, no. Direct game never was and never will be in danger. If I come up to you, smile, introduce myself and tell you you look cute and you somehow feel harassed by that, maybe you should go live in a forest as a hermit.

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I don't think Direct Game is in danger considering many natural guys use it. I think there will always be a place for walking up to a girl with confidence, smile, and telling her whatever comes to mind. There are still a great many women that prefer that type of direct Nicholas Sparks written approach, LOL. I see what you are saying with the way society is going but I think Direct Game has been around for a long time, whether it was clubbing a woman over the head and dragging her back to your cave (my personal favorite) or doing the Nicholas Sparks story board stuff.

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I'm direct with my eye contact, facial expressions, and body language. I get rejected before I even say anything most times.

Here's how to "be direct"...

Look her up and down. Bite your lip cause you think she's sexy. Make eye contact with a "yeah, I was looking at you" type of vibe. If she smiles, go say hi.

And you know you can press hard because you were already "direct." She knows what's up when you give her the "I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you" eyes. You can verbalize it if you want to. It definitely adds fuel to the fire. But you can display intention without ever actually saying anything.

Get good at reading people and spend a shit ton of time in bars where the music is too loud for you to even think. You'll get really good at being "direct" without actually having to be direct.

I wrote an article about this on my blog. Search for "why direct game is best" and it will come up.