so i was thinking what is a good reaction to display when getting pissed off by a bully and what kind of body launguadge do you need to display is there any that would make him back off?(details please)

also i was thinking about the kind of things you could say back to them - whats the basic structure of something you should say back?

and finally is it a good idea to verbally attack that bully before they get a chance to get you? people never want to pick on a bully incase they bully them?

some advice from me to other people in highschool
things not to do that i do:
get angry
punch them out of no where
most bullys are insicure about something:point it out and give them a nickname for it - have stuff to back it up if they say something back to you dont just keep saying it if they throw a defence at you.
if they try to physically attack you theyve gave up the hope of using verbal abuse on you because it wont work and they need to prove there better than you - your job is complete all you have to do now is ethier win the fight, unless your more popular and you can lose although sometimes you can get out of some fights.
the skillfull people, stop when hes reached hes limits and if he starts again (you dident push far enough probly) give him a reminder why he stopped.
if your tall and someone short calls you big boy etc he is obviously upset about hes hight and take advantage of that.
if you say things louder more people are gonna hear and theres more chance of them laughing at him also the other bullies might use what you said against him.

thats all the things i have learned most put into practise and suceeded im slowly becoming better at handling bullies.

thanks for reading

give me your answers on facts and explain how they work or just say how youve used them

A bully is essentially the high school version of an AMOG, so deal with him the same way.

When dealing with a bully/AMOG, you need to keep your frame. Be courteous and polite, but whatever he says, just act unaffected and continue being the cool guy everyone likes. He will notice that you're the only guy who isn't intimidated by him, and he will get pissed.

However, that's exactly what you want to happen -- because all everyone else sees is the try-hard AMOG trying to piss you off, and you being funny and charming.

PUA-1, AMOG-0.