Well pua stuff works.However I would like to ask you 1 question.For me facebook never worked to attract girls but there are some sites that people that want sex go there like ADULTFRIENDFINDER.Is this trustworthy or not
I want to you hear your opinions I do not want to waste my time.
Thanks for reading SPENSAR!!!

Online SUCKS at least for me. I kill it doing real life game, but when it comes to online I can't get jack shit. I have a couple of female friends who do online dating and this girl showed me her Match profile and she has like 200 messages in her inbox. They flick them away like fleas after looking for 1 second. I noticed they always look just at the picture and age. They barely read the content.

I was on POF and send like 500 e-mails I think out of those I got 1 lay with some skinny asian. Sucks balls and can mess your your mind. I know 1 guy who lost self confidence over the shitty things women say online. He doesn't even wanna go out anymore to meet real women because he thinks women online are the last word. Sad case. Plus it can develop severe cynicism.

I do well from all aspects because I like to diversify.

Game works whether it be night/day/online. (My daygame is my weakest but I know that means I have to spend more time on it right?)

If you're better than one that the other then you simply haven't devoted the time to master that part. I guess it is just a comfort zone thing.
Guns don't kill people, fucked up people kill people. Your friend has self asteem issues or something. He would also get negative responses in real life too which will probably bruise his ego more so than an online insult. It's not fair to blame Tinder/POF for your friend's negative mindset.

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Ditto. Online sucks! I have had little success with social sites but I look at it like this. Every single nerd, fatty, awkward person afraid of talking to girls is using online dating. They arnt really competition. But what they really are is cock blocks through their spam, and there's alot of it.

Don't make Online your main focus. Just use it as a filler for when you're on the crapper or a short smoke break at work.

You guys are seriously missing out, online ain't that hard and I consider my self average looks wise, i dress well, I take quality pics, I convey some attractive qualities in the pics, my profile is cool and my messages (copied and paste)) are witty, non needy and rapport seeking.

Show me your profiles? maybe i can help..... I bet you they suck or you live in North Korea or something...

You guys can delude yourselves all you want by using the 'Oh, online sucks, it is for the unconfident people who like to hide behind their devices'

I'm not saying you guys are lazy, since you at least go out and chase girls which is better than 'Let's go out to get drunk and pretend to not want girls' like normal AFC's. But most guys with online game are lazy and stick to their comfort zones.

Online game is no different to real life. You still get fatties in shopping malls, you still get fatties in bars/clubs, you still get fatties on dating websites. You also still get ignored by the 10's and the odd response here and there and even some dates with a 9 every now and then, quite a few 8's, then lot's of 7's - just like in real life.

It is not hard to make a a good profile, the only effort is the good pics part where most people fail. Just like in real life where most people take wayyy too long to handle their looks/style out.

I would happily trade 5 days of day game for 5 days of online game in terms of results just by the sheer fact you have volume on your side, you don't have to deal with groups or cock blocks, you don't have to get into 'state' or do warm ups. You literally only have to press a few buttons. You're missing out which creates less competition for guys like me. You can do this in your pajamas or on the toilet at work. You can even get computer software to do it all for you on autopilot - Imagine having a robot that looks exactly like you that will go day game and collect solid phone numbers for you? - how cool would that be?

You can even refine and filter girls! - ok, let's say hypothetically there were 2 identical cities, one being your current city and the other that has less girls, but they are ALL single and looking to meet someone? - which one would you sarge the fuck out? - the one where 80% of the girls will say they have boyfriends or the ones that you know that are single?

The Archilles heel of online game is this:

The most generic problem with online game, at lot of people brush their AA under the carpet and use online game as a crutch, but then comes the date where they are petrified and then they simply haven't had enough reps to practise physical escalation so it is hard to get past that essential physical barrier.

Day game is great for AA and alcohol crutches, club game is great for AA and escalation experience. Mix all 3 channels and your week's schedule should be getting filled up with dates or at least 1/2 which is pretty good IMO and create that important abundance that cures neediness.

Sorry for ramble but I am pretty sick of hearing/reading about people making comments about the whole hiding behind their keyboard messaging fatties thing. It just reflects your lack of results only.

Here is my last date from Tinder that ended with just a make out, (still texting):

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You are missing out on the same quality girls if you don't do it. Simple as that.

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Online is a very different skill. Especially on specialist sites. Your routine on POF or Facebook isn't worth jack in a FWB or sex site.

Some of the principles are the same but completely different emphasis and you have to work at it.

It is very heavily linguistic in nature and you are unlikely to go broke being domineering or commandeering. Once you've established rapport at any rate..

Girls sign up for these sites in the thousands, which is a thrill for them. Many probably only get as far as looking through profiles and dreaming or having a flick.

The advantage for me is that I'm not interested in drinking and have limited time available at the weekends. As you say attractive lasses get hundreds of messages a day but there is no, "I only want a serious relationship" nonsense.

I find it far more gratifying than live, almost entirely because the sex is infinitely better. Opposites attract in the bedroom, especially when neither of you are looking for someone to potentially live and have kids with. The girls make an effort, not in terms of push up bras and makeup - there's no point. They know your opinion of them will be based upon taste, smell and ability. It really isn't comparable to generally drunken sweaty sex after a night of dancing on the town. Most of the time you've both been up for 18 hours or more by the time you get their knickers off, online you arrange to meet early and have all night to explore.

Another is feedback. The lasses are far more forthcoming with what they want, what they liked etc. Find a lass with a dating diary or similar and hit them up. Reading a detailed description of your exploits is truly awesome, in fact I've recently started using this myself. It's a bit like being a literary porn star for them...