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Yeah, most dont really think about social proof anymore. Most of the other stuff, let's be honest, doesnt really care about social proof. You approach, if you get rejected...well...again..lucky for you girls dont notice. But yes, they do notice you getting blown out 5 times before approaching them. Even if they register you approaching and then 5 mins approaching them, they feel that you were shot down. The good ROI I see for MM, is that by approaching indirectly, less rejection and girls actually register that oh, he's speaking to this group of girls, they're laughing...he must be at least an ok guy. So the ROI comes from preserving at the least, or enhancing your social proof/value.
I agree with all of that. I always try to talk to some girls that I'm not interested in, before I ever hit on a girl. I've found the difference in success is day and night, when you have another girl to introduce her to. The girl doesn't even need to be especially attractive(provided she's not a land whale). I think maybe it reassures her that you're probably not crazy/rapist, etc.
Girls are always doubting their own judgment, which is why they're so subjective to peer pressure.
Now that mostly just helps with a girl who's already into you. Honestly, I've never used pawns. Though I have used pivots. Having pretty friends has perks, as I can say that attractive girls notice when you're around other attractive women.
The bad ROI I was talking about, was a 6 going after 9s. If I was just out hounding for sex, I'd rather rack up 30 7s over 4 9s. I just personally find questing for the girls in the top %1-2 of looks to be a waste of time.
I don't know about you, but I'm not all that thrilled with anything over an 8. And mostly a 7. At that point, when I have her naked and pressed up against me, I can't say it makes much difference. I'm already completely turned on and my dick is already in "FUCK YEAH" mode and there is no higher gear.
The prettier/hotter girl is nice, but ultimately worthless when it comes to sex. I may get turned on easier with her clothes on, but when it actually comes to sex? I'd say there's little to no difference for me. And I'm skeptical there is for any guy. This isn't like some husky girl with her gut getting in your way and grunting like a hog.
So to some extent I understand wanting an 8+ as a GF or FWB or whatever, but a ONS? Meh, honestly, no. I don't see a ton of value in much over a 7. Especially not to the point where you're sacrificing far more girls to quest after this one girl who's at best, marginally better looking. That's the bad ROI, IMO.
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