The title of this is a bit aggressive. I wanted to paint the picture of where family stands to your progress.

I'm going to speak in a generality. There are exceptions to this and if your family is the exception, love and cherish them! I am honestly happy for you.

Family members, particularly immediate family members, only see you in the light of when you were a child. If you have corrected any bad habits from youth they won't accept that you have changed. They will try to box you into that old frame to justify their image of you. They probably will even make attacks on your self esteem.

This is essentially like walking a path with a ball and chain tied to your ankle. Even if you try to simply "ignore them" the constant reaffirming of these childhood concepts can seep into your subconsciousness and begin reversing changes that you've made.

My advice? Limit contact with these people as much as possible. If you live at home form a plan to make enough paper to move out. Go out for walks to get away from them when you start seeing them attempt to reaffirm your old self upon you. You should sarge while you're out on these walks. Make a rule of doing one approach during these moments if you like. Disconnect from them and understand that their judgments are based out of ignorance for the present.

This picking up women/self improvement thing is a solo journey. At times it can seem like a lonely path. People won't understand you at some points. It's the price you have to pay as a person attempting to lead his own way.

1 guy in 99 that this resonates with shoot me a pm. I'm glad I could shine a bit of light and let you know others do understand you.

Hey, once you get your own place it will be much less of a problem. You just simply throw their asses out.

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I am a hunter of human excellence. I seek out those individuals who break the norms
and demonstrate to all of us what’s really possible. I learn what those few
extraordinary individuals do that’s different from everybody else, and then emulate
them.

Spot on....it's a lonely path at times and a solo journey. But what you become as a man
on the inside is worth it.

As always, it depends!

It is a lonely path because you will do things that will seem weird and maybe even immature to some people, and they will not understand without a proper explanation. But if you are in the middle of the journey, still learning, you haven't figured things out yet and are not capable of explaining it. In order to explain something you need to understand it yourself first. Today I can easily explain everything to people and make them not only understand, but even nod in agreement to what I say.

About family... It depends on your family, obviously. And on you. Maybe they won't understand the process, maybe they will. My parents did. And it will probably take time for them to see you as the new person you have become, and you need to "help" them by not falling back to you old role, and own whatever you are and do. For instance, my parents think I became more masculin. They accepted my new self.

I feel that this journey is beginning without my knowledge,I am the youngest and I notice my family is slowly drifting apart, I am making progress in seduction and life improvement but I often feel down, thinking it is due to such a quick and swift move.For example,i came home for christmas and my family had a huge arguement and we just simply forgot about the time "to exchange gifts",I felt really down around christmas because everything went wrong and there was a lot of tears and verbal exchange.When i left to go back to DK,my parents were obvisiously dissapointed in how the christmas period ended.I ask,Does your guys journey begin like this? because i completely understand this Quote

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"Life is a chance,take all the ones you get".

This is the theory of the energy vampire. Honestly, it doesnt have to be a lonely journey but more than likely it will be. This is because only you will know how to steer the ship in the direction that suits you. I would absolutely limit time with anyone that makes your life worse. Trust me, life is too short to waste it will people that bring you down, family or otherwise.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"