There are many women in my life which I had always wanted to sleep with before I was involved in this brotherhood. I find it vexing that I did not. Either I was with another girl at the time, I lived with the girl and wanted to avoid awkward tension if it blew up in my face, or she was friends with the girl I was seeing. Does anyone have any tips on how to put these women out of their mind? I find when I am around them I revert back to my AFC past and lose the confidence I have gained. I'm not sure I even want to bang them, it's almost pleasurable thinking of them as the ones that got away. How do I conquer them?

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Jackstay

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Either bang them or get over it. I'd go with get over it since you revert to an AFC.

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You have to realise that you know better now... you've taken the red pill... you're going back to the Matrix and everything is basically one big crazy fun joke. You're above it! How could these women possibly make you lose your newfound confidence? Instead, you should have more confidence - not to mention the ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.

Possibly they are triggering past memories that are unlocking parts of your old personality. You need to completely crush the last remaining traces of that person, and complete your transformation into the new guy. Is there still some lingering pain involved with this transition? Sure. But instead of thinking about the women who "got away", think about all the new people you're going to meet and new experiences you're going to have. Long-term focus!

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I do agree. I feel as though these women are insidiously reverting me back to an AFC when I am around them. My old self may be longing for what it was unable at a time to grasp - her pussy. What happens if I try and pick their fruit and become rejected? Will that undermine my confidence further? I am fully aware my demons lay in the mind and no place else, but these thoughts are very deleterious if left unchecked. I think indifference and ostracism will be what I use to fight this battle. Who knows, maybe they will move on me. I think this theme is common amongst PUAs. We enter into the seduction community to conquer the women that we're incapable of conquering. Eventually we develop the skills to be an effective venusian artist and find we may be able to achieve triumph over them.

Upon reflection I have developed this perspective; if we PUAs seduce many HB8+s, those women are bound to have many men like myself who could not get their dick wet by that sought after vagina. But we did. We PUAs conquered what another AFC could not. As such we have conquered our former selves because we were once them. See the orbits, not the women.

Best,


Jackstay

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