Brothers being a pua in the small town I am right now its so hard there are no college girls just local girls I end up during night game just to be social cause most girls
even if you escalate good "they have high comfort zones"And all the girls I met so far were from day game and finally after so much effort and time(4 weeks gaming and dating)I have 2 girls that I can easily fuck them but not cause I am some good pua but because they are virgins and both are dtf girls cause they want to lose their virginity.
I was like 1.5 weeks in a big city 5.000.000 had less time cause I was for business there
I did not hit many girls and the ones I hit ,I hit them with bad game but still got some dates which If I had little bit more experience or time to stay there I would have surely got laid.
Conclusion I lost my motivation to continue gaming in this small town
I will just settle down with that girls(at least 1 of these girls its 7 out of 10 the other one its 5 out 10 I will just use her to get into social circles)
honestly If I had not put so much time and effort in gaming it would really hard to found them.
And I will start gaming again from octomber when I will move to a big city

I feel like there is no point to continue gaming here I will lose so much time
to get little results
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Jesus man, how small is small? Like, if it is a medium sized town there will be adaptations you will have to make to your game (your reputation will matter a lot, girls will have a reputation to uphold as well, so the ASD theresold is prone to be higher etc.) but you can still play around... If it is so small there literally is no material to work with, consider going out sarging in nearby towns... Or just move to a more decent place.

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200.000 population but now its summer and all college students are not here.this year(november) I will move to 5.000.000 population city(there it will be fantastic ).So right now its a city without college students just the local ones.SO you will see the same faces again and again in the clubs.My mind just end ups in 1 solution to burn the house down and do not give a fuck.I will stay in this place 20 days and I will stay 1 month in another place (80.000 population town)and I will burn the house down also there and finally around october or near november I will be able to ""truly game without limits at all"That's what I think.
And yes its true that the targets are less but still I got plenty of time to game
What is your opinion?

I feel it for you man, I feel it for you. I went to university in a town of roughly the same size, and it was not until the last year that I actively started gaming... (luckily, I moved to a big city after that as well). Esentially, by the end of the last year, I would keep running into the same people and they would know me as well... it was not bad but, as I said, when this is the case, you have a reputation to uphold, so in my opinion, you cannot be as blunt as you would be in a big city and are more afraid of crashing and burning... Then again hey, you are moving away anyway, so unleash the beast!

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K now I am starting getting good at pick up but its hard in small towns to get 1 night stand or just some fuck buddy , most girls I came across want relationship and everything moves slow and If I want to fuck many girls in a small town my game has to be really subtle plus my biggest problem is I cannot take a decision what I truly want in one hand I would like to find a good girl and have a relationship cause I never had a relationship in my life but on the other hand sometimes my mind swifts towards just sex which is harder to sleep with many women in small towns.
In the end what I think is relationship or just sex its better in a big city sex life is for the big cities
What is your opinion can you be a 'REAL PLAYER" in a small town?
Personally I understand that many times I must be subtle with my game but I hate it
and I like to be more direct and have more freedom in my hands that's why a big city would be the best for me.Am I right?
The only problem with big cities is that you need more money to live the life there and since I am in the last year of my academic studies this is the only thing that makes me do not want to transfer to a big city.THE FUCKING money!In a small town you can have a good life with little amount of money.In a city you need cash.Which unfortunately I will have when I finish my academy!
So after writing so much what shall I choose a small town to continue my academic responsibilities(80.000)which in that place I need less money to live or a big city 5.000.000 where I can game without limits but its logical to spend more money and travel greater distances with my scooter or using the metro the whole fucking time?
Plus its the last year in my merchant marine academy which is very crucial for my career I will have to study a lot cause next august I am going to work as an officer in oil tankers so of course there is time to game but not enough time to do crazy shit
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I personally think your over thinking it. Be the fun and flirty guy. Be the guy that women know will show them a good time and not judge them for it. They won't judge you for it. If the captain of the football team banged half of the cheerleaders do you think those other cheerleaders are going to think he's gross or do you think they are going to be curious about him?

In short, don't be scared of being tagged a "ladies man". And if and when you ever get asked about it a simple grin with a "I don't kiss and tell sweetie" will suffice.

so I stay in small town?

Don't Merchant Marines make a lot of money? I heard they did.

Anyway, from what I understand, oil tankers are out at sea for long periods of time. My guess is you would likely be able to save up so much money that while you are on your off-time/not out at sea, you would have the option of staying where ever you would like. I suppose that's why you may be asking this question.

I grew up in a big city, so I couldn't imagine living in a small town. However, I do often go to small towns and it is totally not my scene. My experience has been that people tend to settle down at a young age. Go to a grocery store, you might spot a cutie, but out of nowhere, 3 kids come up from behind her yelling "mommy, mommy, mommy."

It is my experience that bigger cities tend to attract YUPpies (young urban professionals). So women tend not to be tied down and are a bit more free-spirited. Again, I'm assuming you will make decent bank, so you should be able to make it just fine. Not saying you should move there, but at least do most of your sarging there. As you said, it's expensive to live in a big city, so most of the women are just making it to live in a nice apartment/condo/flat, so when you come around, you will look like a baller (well-off) / DHV.

There are a lot of cuties in small towns, but the big city is where you will find the drop dead gorgeous women. Just my opinion.

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ye you are right but where shall I stay for my last college year?of course after I finish with college I will move to a big city.

Just stick to your small town for now and occasionally hit the big city.

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That's your call. I'm just saying to quit worrying about being branded a ladies man. Own it and women will not judge you for it.