The FIRST and most important thing a man needs to know is that the female brain is wired DIFFERENTLY to a man's.
That's the ONE THING Feminists will NEVER understand.
Because their brains are wired differently they view SEX differently.
Before I post the main content of this thread I just want give 3 warnings:
1) I won't patronise anyone by telling them what to do, instead, this post is about seeing sex in a DIFFERENT way which then leads to having better sex.
2) This post is quite long but I promise you, if you read it's entirety it WILL be worth it,
3) Please read this with an open mind.
Ok, now I'll start:
Sex is widely known by most men as simply when our d!cks enters a woman's pvssy.
I was no different. I grew up like most men in this generation NOT learning what sex was from my parents, but from watching porn and listening to what my friends told me.
While physical penetration is OBVIOUSLY part of sex, sex is SO MUCH more.
A few years ago I began to notice something fascinating was happening between my interactions with the women I f*cked.
The way I interacted with them mimicked the way I f *cked them.
Now, it is common knowledge that women enjoy foreplay MORE than men and in my experience this is true.
The truth is, even though both men and women love sex...men and women love sex in DIFFERENT ways.
The best way to describe it is like this:
Men see sex as 80% physical and 20% psychological.
Women see sex as 20% physical and 80% psychological.
This applies to both men and women in GENERAL.
This explains WHY men prefer porn and women prefer "erotic" novels.
FRMI Studies show that the same areas of the brain that light up with sexual response in men
SEEING (physical) porn is the same area that lights up when women are involved in deep,
EMOTIONAL (psychological) conversation.
Link here:
http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/808430_4
Not only is this my experience but pretty much everyone I know.
I've realised what gets women wet the most isn't what is happening, but what MIGHT happen LATER.
Women LOVE anticipating that sex might happen and this makes perfect sense.
Unlike us, women need to get wet FIRST, before they can f*ck.
How do you make a woman anticipate that sex might happen? Tease, tease, tease.
Because us men view sex mostly as physical, women tease us PHYSICALLY....but since women view sex mostly as psychological we should
tease women PSYCHOLOGICALLY.
EVERY interaction you have with a woman you're attracted to is sex for a woman.
When you approach her...sex.
When you flirt with her...sex.
etc, etc, all the way to the bedroom or the kitchen or the street corner....wherever.
Tease her when you approach her by invading her personal space psychologically and by asking her PERSONAL questions, tease her by making fun of her habits, tease her by touching her briefly, tease her by looking her in the eye a little longer than usual, tease her by leaning into to smell her rather than kiss her, tease her by kissing her and then stopping abruptly, tease by
Inviting her out but NOT making it a date, tease her by inviting her to your place for "drinks", tease her by inviting her to your bedroom to "show her something", etc, etc....
Also, I think it's essential TEASE her by touching her all over her body APART from the obvious places just before you f*ck her.
I usually do this in two ways.
1.Have a "play fight" where you physically overpower her.
2. Give her a massage.
Basically, make her anticipate being f*cked by subtly dropping little hints that you want to f*ck her.
It's like boiling water, slowly increase your escalation, raising her temperature higher and higher, until she's so hot that you're basically doing her a favour by taking her clothes off...
Since sex for women is ONLY 20% physical...if you do tease her psychologically the right way, it HARDLY matters what you do PHYSICALLY.
The best description of sex IMO is the term "sexual intercourse".
The definition of "sexual intercourse" in the dictionary is only a partial definition.
To understand it FULLY, you have to look at the definition of both words SEPARATELY.
Sex·u·al
1. Of, relating to, involving, or characteristic of sex, sexuality, the sexes, or the sex organs and their functions.
2. Implying or symbolizing erotic desires or activity.
In·ter·course
1. Dealings or communications between persons or groups.
"Sex", or "sexual intercourse" in it's COMPLETE form is SEXUAL COMMUNICATION.
It is the FUSION of masculine energy and feminine energy.
To COMMUNICATE with her, you must speak HER language.
For her to COMMUNICATE with you, she must speak YOUR language.
A man and a woman's brain is wired DIFFERENTLY.
This realisation has changed my life.
CHAT