things that may help someone somewhere
1) Women come and go. Especially true at the young ages. Don't get too upset about a girl not workin out because chances are you will meet a better one sooner than you think.
2) When it's not you, it's her, it's actually how you make her feel. Girls don't care about you as much as they care about how they feel. Stop making her feel good, and she stops wanting to date you.
3) When you're right and she's wrong, you make her feel bad. Don't correct girls on things if you don't have to. Unless you can think of a way to do it really politely. Being told "you're wrong" can be embarrassing and make a girl feel bad. Make her feel bad enough times and she stops liking you.
4) Girls are a very small realm of life. Easy to be wrapped up in the dopamine indulging, addiction to a woman or many women. Our parents and grandparents had bigger problems, such as the great depression and war and crazy shit. If you find yourself quite upset about a girl, take a step back and look at the big picture of life and how meaningless your grief really is.
5) Keep an eye out for red flags. Girls often try and hide their flaws until they think you are"hooked" to expose them. Red flags are red for a reason. It means stop. It means don't get attached.
6) The grass is always greener. When you are single a girl to watch netflix with and fuck regularly sounds like a great idea, but when you get into a relationship and a year later want to fuck other girls, it looks different.
7) Rejection is necessary. The way you learn to shoot a free throw is take some shots and calibrate your error to score. Rejection is that calibration that is necessary to guide you in her sex net.
Trying harder is bad. Don't try harder. Try smarter. Throwing yourself the same way at women is not going to get you different results. Different results come from calibration, and being willing to calibrate without taking it personally.
9) It's an internal battle. You're emotions, thoughts, feelings, it will all affect the way you make a girl feel. If you make her feel bad she will find someone who makes her feel good.
10) It's an exterior battle. Your body language, the things you say, the way you look, all affect the way you make a girl feel. Pay attention to what makes her feel good and what makes her feel bad and then decide to fuck her, wife her, or leave her.
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