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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 5:13 am 
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How aggressive is too aggressive?

Being somewhat direct seems to work fine but sometimes my inner animal wants to come out, where is that perfect balance?

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:36 am 
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A girl will tell you if you're being too aggressive. You can always take a step back.

Nothing is more unattractive to a girl than a guy who is too big of a pussy to make a move.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 5:21 pm 
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Hey bro that's a good question.

Define aggressive man.
Me personally I fight for a sport I'm naturally aggressive. When it comes to chatting to girls be yourself as for your inner animal. When you have hook line an sunk (picked up an art sleeping with her) discuss aggressive sex.

Don't be an asshole about it man the asshole never gets laid the way he wants. The comment above is right she'll let you know.

I just save aggressive for the bedroom personally or a ring. But as I said it depends on what you mean by aggressive brother.

Hope that helped message back if you want.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 5:30 pm 
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So lets say you are the most aggressive man on the planet. The aggression will essentially weed out the girls who aren't down. Taking a less aggressive approach has value if you still need to build attraction, but if attraction already exists it will force women into action. So it depends on the situation.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 6:15 pm 
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How aggressive is too aggressive?

Being somewhat direct seems to work fine but sometimes my inner animal wants to come out, where is that perfect balance?
I think aggression is wonderful! That "inner animal" is exactly what drives me to pursue multiple women, and prevents me from stalling when I see a new girl…

That said, being overly direct will drive even the sluttiest of girls away. Aggression is the driving force, like the thruster of a rocket, but without the rocket (i.e. your game) the thruster is nothing but an explosion… I let my aggression (testosterone highs) drive me, but I try to keep my wits and use some tact.

Saying what you mean to say, and figuring out an awesome way of saying it (or getting away with it) is like a fundamental principle of gaming and socializing in general IMO.

EDIT: Take it with a grain of salt though… then again, I did just post up a short story in my "Never laid an Ex before" post in the Day-2 thread about how I fucked this one girl without really ever saying a word to her at all… but if you read it, you'll see that the circumstances were perfect for that to happen (i.e. lingerie party, both already in underwear, both probably had a bit to drink, dancing, etc.)… you gotta read your environment and the overall situation.


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