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How aggressive is too aggressive?
Being somewhat direct seems to work fine but sometimes my inner animal wants to come out, where is that perfect balance?
I think aggression is wonderful! That "inner animal" is exactly what drives me to pursue multiple women, and prevents me from stalling when I see a new girl…
That said, being overly direct will drive even the sluttiest of girls away. Aggression is the driving force, like the thruster of a rocket, but without the rocket (i.e. your game) the thruster is nothing but an explosion… I let my aggression (testosterone highs) drive me, but I try to keep my wits and use some tact.
Saying what you mean to say, and figuring out an awesome way of saying it (or getting away with it) is like a fundamental principle of gaming and socializing in general IMO.
EDIT: Take it with a grain of salt though… then again, I did just post up a short story in my "Never laid an Ex before" post in the Day-2 thread about how I fucked this one girl without really ever saying a word to her at all… but if you read it, you'll see that the circumstances were perfect for that to happen (i.e. lingerie party, both already in underwear, both probably had a bit to drink, dancing, etc.)… you gotta read your environment and the overall situation.