| Alright, so there's 2 things I want to talk about that if you want to get laid, you NEED to have.
1. Persistence
First, let me be clear... There is a HUGE difference between being persistent and being needy. Don't be needy.
Basically, what persistence means is don't take no for an answer.
If she doesn't answer your text, call her. If she doesn't answer your call, call her again. Any objection she throws at you, find a way to overcome it. When a girl gives you objections, that's when you want to be logical with her.
If you're trying to invite yourself over, tell her you're only staying for 5 minutes, then you've gotta go.
If its late night, you're trying to get her to hang out and she says "Me and my friends are just ordering pizza and passing out" say "Cool, save me a piece. What's the address?"
Being persistent means saying and doing whatever the fuck you've got to in order to make it happen. No pun intended, but you need to jam yourself down her throat. Don't even let her say no.
Now, that leads me to my second topic...
2. Creativity
Once you turn yourself into a guy who doesn't take no for an answer (believe me, that shit doesn't happen over night.) you're going to have to do some CRAZY shit every so often to get laid. Maybe you've gotta pull a girl to an abandoned building, a crawl space, behind a dumpster, a parking garage wherever. Sneaking into clubs where they told you that you couldn't get in. Walking through ghetto ass areas to get to where you can fuck a girl. Talking yourself out of fights. The list goes on... its a free for all.
The ART in Pick-Up Artist comes from having that one skill... Being creative. Being able to think on your feet and make shit happen. That's when it's an actual art and not some science like some guys try to make it out to be.
The only way I can teach someone how to develop some creativity (as far as ballsy-ness goes) is make REALLY fast decisions. Don't think to hard about things. If you don't think about it and you just try it, you'd be amazed how many times it actually works. (or just doesn't get you killed)
I wanted to write this because I'm noticing alot of guys around here lack that resilience and persistence factor. Some of you just give up way to easily. You gotta realize that in alot of these situations where a girl doesn't call you back or text you back or starts to ignore you or whatever... she wants to fuck you. She's just not gonna make it easy. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO FEEL LIKE A SLUT. So just be persistent and as they say... keep plowing through.
And the creativity... man. Most times its just the simplest shit. If you want to get laid, you've gotta see all of the angles and make a fucking move. Just do SOMETHING. Even if you make the wrong move, you can always fix it later. Don't be afraid to make shit interesting.
Salute
-Jay
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