I'm trying to figure this out, my sticking point with women is from 1-2 months into a relationship. I know I have what it takes but I think once I get this, a few tweaks may change my life. Any help from pua's experienced in relationships would be much appreciated...

At what point in a beginning phase of a relationship do express genuine care for a girl? (assuming she has plenty of options) (Ex. letting her know you're there to support her if she's having a tough time and going out of your way to walk them home)

How do you express this genuine care without her thinking she's got you and now she can move on?

How often do you contact her in the beginning phase, how and when do you freeze her out?

How do you push pull in the beginning of a relationship in terms of when you see them, call them, etc?

Is it normal for women to freeze out/seriously consider other options, after a couple months of passion or fun with someone? If so how do you go about this?

Any other tips on shaking things up after some time of relatively intense passion/fun, after things feel like they might plateau.

In simple terms; "The one that cares less controls the relationship."

Whoever has the most feeling and emotion invested in the relationship will subconsciously communicate that and thus push their partner away. Typically men who care too much will begin to act needy and insecure.

Picture the man you were when you first started dating your girlfriend. Now, picture the man you became. Did the "male/female" polarity shift and you started to act more and more submissive, while your girlfriend assuming a dominant role?

I'm guessing yes.

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This is a very valid point. I feel like this can be a more fluid thing though. Isn't the best relationship one in which power is fluid and changing, maybe you are doing your thing and the girl is making the efforts in the relationship, and then the next week you appreciate everything she's done and so you make the efforts to show your appreciation. Is this possible or is it always one person that cares the most?

My last relationship was about 2 1/2 months. I had complete power for the first 2 months w the girl always initiating the hang outs about 3 times a week. The last twho weeks I took a road trip for two days, didn't call her, she didn't call me, I came back met up with her, she treated me like a king by showering me w free drinks at her restaurant, then we went out w her friend and she basically ignored me and talked w her friend. I told her I thought she was being disrespectful we fought I said I thought coming back from a road trip warranted 40 percent of attention, I did feel like I really wanted to see her and chill but I was taking the argument lightly and even smiling through most of it, it wasn't a big deal, just letting her know I missed her and would of liked a little more attention. Well we went to my house and fucked that night. After she froze me out for 2 weeks I texted her once every 3 days or something, not a lot. Met up w her and broke up after 2 wks of freeze out and told her that I'm seeing other people (which I am).

How can one conversation completely ruin 2mnths of her completely chasing? Any help or perspective on relationships would be much appreciated.

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