I have posted a few times about the idea of rambling for the first 3-5 minutes in an interaction with a girl. It's not a new concept that you talk 90% of the time in the beginning of an interaction in order to start it up, unless she's already sexually hooked, however what do you actually talk about?

The answer is it can be literally anything and everything. However there are times when things go better and things take a little longer to get the girl invested sexually (with sexual investment I mean she is not only wanting you to stay, but she's giving you that look that she wants you). One of the best ways to do this is to play.

Being sexually playful in the first 3-5 minutes (or however long it takes to sexually hook her), sets the frame that you are both sexual but also not serious.

Humor is one of the best ways to pass any shit test, any type of resistance, any type of blockage. If that humor is directed purely towards you, however, it is twice as powerful. All reaction seeking is removed and all self amusement if amped up. You are sexually aggressive and you find it funny that she isn't comfortable with it yet.

"Rambling" then becomes "talking shit". You can use the verb "to play with her" to help you get to that vibe. Your sexual intent is in your eyes and body language and vocal tonality, and your self amusement is in your words and actions. She knows what's up but she also isn't talking about anything serious with you. One of the easiest ways to get into the headspace of playful rambling is roleplay. Using roleplay is playful as it isn't real. This gets you into the headspace of not talking anything "real" with her. You can have an entire interaction with her that doesn't involve anything real, anything true at all, but it all still is "true" underneath.

The "Marry you" roleplay/frame is one of the most powerful frames you can set, and after that your mind can go on a wonder. Once you tell her you should get married playfully and she understands the joke you have a free-pass for anything and everything. The "Marry you" frame is really only one of an infinite number of frames. But a playful frame is set once you start to have fun for yourself, where things you say make you laugh internally, where you want to say the next thing because you find it awesome and hilarious.

Once you set the frame of playful sexuality at the beginning of an interaction, you are now playfully sexual throughout the entire relationship with her, be it taking her home that night, on a Day 2, or for a LTR. You can even start the playful sexuality midway through but the earlier the better obviously.

Next time you go out try talking about absolutely nothing real and make everything up. This isn't lying, it's playing. She understands when you have a massive smile on your face. She will, too, as what you feel she feels, even if there is a little lag time in the beginning.