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 Post subject: Shy Girls
PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 3:24 pm 
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I went out on a date with a girl yesterday who I met at a bar the night before. That night, she didn't give much eye contact, and the next day it was the same. I feel like I did a good job of escalating, and encouraging her openness, and even called her out on being shy which pushed her to open up more.

I was super comfortable in myself, and not acting reactively. We went on a walk, sat in a nice nature spot, but she had her body slightly turned, and made it hard for me to go for the kiss. I couldn't triangulate eye gaze or move in gracefully, so I asked, and she said she didn't kiss on the first date. Really?!! Anyways I kissed her on the cheek, kind of lame, but what are some techniques to get shy girls to open up more and faster?

When I'm out, I'm almost tempted to just walk away from these girls who are being boring and closed off, and find people who are open and willing to have fun. Should I? I'd like to help warm people up, but how?


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 Post subject: Re: Shy Girls
PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 6:17 pm 
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Why is this posted here?

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 Post subject: Re: Shy Girls
PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 6:41 pm 
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Because I posted it here and this seemed to be the right place for it. Why
not be helpful and suggest a better place to post if you think I chose the wrong part of the forum?


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 Post subject: Re: Shy Girls
PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 6:55 pm 
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General questions.

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 Post subject: Re: Shy Girls
PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 9:34 pm 
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Unlike some people, I will try to help
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encouraging her openness, and even called her out on being shy which pushed her to open up more.
No, no and no! Shy people already know that they are shy and pointing it out will accomplish the exact opposite of what you are trying to do, which is opening her up. The way to do it (at least from my experience...) is to make them comfortable. Once they are comfortable around you, they will automatically become more open.
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When I'm out, I'm almost tempted to just walk away from these girls who are being boring and closed off, and find people who are open and willing to have fun. Should I? I'd like to help warm people up, but how?
You should go for whatever you like. If I go out and meet girls for a short period of time I want them to be extroverted because that's fun! However, I often find that once shy girls open up, they are usually a lot more fun than extroverted girls! It's all about making them comfortable around you but that takes some time (which I'm not ready to invest in short term events such as a night out in a bar :lol: )

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