Just going to think outloud here.
So I met a girl last week at the mall. exchange numbers. friendly flirtacious text after. She admits she has a boyfriend and so I turn it into good for him, too bad he's not here to keep me from flirting with you. Anyway so number closed.
Tonight she texts me saying to come out to some club. I figured maybe i thought maybe she'd broken up with him or maybe she was looking for a one nighter. aparently not. I get there and she's all over me. Her boyfriends there to break contact and browse the club. I go up and talk to this group of girls who were surrounded by guys who were acting like idiots and not flirting with these sexy girls standing around right next to them. I use the relationship opinion opener. it works on one. she admits that the other two girls were to drunk to even care whats going on.
After some good conversation, and body language flirting some guy walks up and scoops her out. I needed another beer by this point.
Then Iwalk up to a 2 person group with the famous "my friends under a spell given to him from some girl he didn't even like. We talk and talk. Then the waiter comes and delivers beer to them. they both flirt back. getting free beer i suppose. turns out they are from out of town. I try to number close on them but failed. Here's why: they got bored with me and I stuck around like a cat and a ball of yarn. I didn't do enough raport to gain their trust. I also lied and said I wasnot from Hawii. which I am...) Anyway on the upside: I went up and approached some people. On the downside thie whole reason why I went there left with some other jerk. I learned alot today. Hopefully tomorrow I will be able to get out and get some fresh air.