How do you guys break out of the unsociable state? the state when you're tired from work and the like and you are out with a group talking to people you dont know but you just cant be arsed to initiate.. can you relate?

Do you call it a night or do you break out of it somehow?

Last night, instead of 'trying' to be sociable i just sat there after a few drinks and didnt make effort, it didnt yield any results as such but helps me realise that I don't have to conform to the social setting and can just be myself. Still though, it doesn't produce results.

From my experience, PU is like a performance which requires energy and effort. You are supposed to entertain your target which is hard if you are tired.

I have realized that everything about PU (or rather seduction actually, since it is possible to pick someone up without seducing her first) boils down to one thing - attention. You need to make your target pay attention to you for quite some time (a couple of hours). This in turn requires that you can lead the conversation, have interesting things to say, be fun and stimulating etc. You can do this if you are tired too, just not as easy.

To answer your question... Do you call it a night or do you break out of it? It depends on how desperately you need results. I would rather call it a night and try my luck another time. As with desperation in general, it usually spoils everything anyway, in one way or the other.

Well said, yep I kind of gathered that over the past year or so but wanted to confirm with you guys that its not worth forcing attitude for the sake of practice and results. The state is needed for vibe and projection. Its the equivalent of mustering up a shit workout session or lets say, a vocalists routine practice imo just does'nt involve the energy needed.

You've gotta push yourself through that shit... If you want to get laid, you've gotta force yourself to be social.

If you're not so concerned about having a good time and getting laid, then go home. Do something else with your time.