I recently broke thing off with my ex-girlfriend--no hard feeling between us, but I live overseas now and haven't seen her for months now, so we decided that it was best to just to split for the time being. I really like(d) her and maybe we'll get back together, but things change, people change and that, as they say, is that.

Here is the question--I might be moving out to the area where my ex-girlfriend lives, and she has a couple pretty cute friends. It is damn near impossible to reel one of them in if I end up going out there? My game is not sharp--in fact, I would say I am pretty much an AFC who is well acquainted with theory.

What do you think my prospects are, and is there any preemptive work I should do?

My first question is, why don't you hook back up with your ex? Since you say there's that possibility anyway.

Aside from that, field experience, learning from your mistakes, and calibration makes your game tight. Simple as that. And, it sounds like that's what you need in order to reel in one of her friends. Put the theory to work. Get out there and learn.

Eh, she's changing in a weird way that I don't much care for. She's not the same girl that I dated back then. I will try to rebuild it, but I don't want things to be awkward and strange, which I think would ruin the good memories I have. I'm sort of a sentimental sap like that.

I promise it is not to make her jealous though. If I were to guess, I think it is a forbidden fruit sort of thing--friends cannot be had when in the relationship, yet you spend lots of time with them and after the relationship they are just out there--available, yet not.

I can tell you IF they are a true friend to your ex-girlfriend, they will respect her and NOT date you! That was one of the unspoken friendship rules when I was growing up, but needless to say . . . things change.
~Cali

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I agree. It's similar to the Bros before Ho's rule between guys.
I think theirs is Chicks before dicks or something.

Her friends more than likely won't even think twice about it.

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